Here's the situation: I met him and he followed me everywhere, showed up all the time, was always touching me when he went by, always bumping and brushing me. Then we found out I was pregnant, thought it was his, even though I'd just broken up with my last boyfriend 3-4 weeks before. He started acting funny after I found out I was pregnant, but I did alot of pushing him away too, especially when we found out I was too far along, for the baby 2 b his. He was there when I had the baby. And, for the most, he treats the baby as his. I know it still hurts him...But he wanted me to move in with him even while I was pregnant he pushed and pushed. Then I did. Now he doesn't touch me at all, he's stopped kissing me goodnight. We NEVER fight. We hardly argue...He just doesn't seem to care...But always listens to how my day went, asks about it, tries 2 b there when I need someone and buys alot of things me n my son need. He definitely cares, but he's almost cold. Does he think I cheated?
2006-10-18 04:13:54 · 6 answers · asked by sadlyconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never cheated. I was actually pregnant with the previous boyfriend's baby when I met him. I just didn't know quite awhile.
2006-10-18 04:21:33 · update #1
You guys need to talk! His attitude towards you shows that he feels you played a fast one on him. Make him know you love him and you should really talk about the past i.e. before you found out that you were pregnant, how you wished the baby is his and all that stuff. Try to convince him that you didn't intentionally throw another man's child at him... I guess that's what is bothering him.
Since you say he loves you and is still nice to you a heart-to-heart talk will do.
2006-10-18 04:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by ndy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh okay, I reread what you said. Okay, well here's the thing. He is probably just trying to do his best to accept this situation, and handle it the best way he can. However, he is probably still wishing that the baby was his. I'm sure he will come around, because if he didn't care, he wouldn't have wanted you and the baby to move in with him. Just give him time to get adjusted.
2006-10-18 11:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he thinks you cheated because you were too far along for it to be his i just think it hurts him too bad to really think about nething or he may be afraid to get too close and then you get pregnant and you two break up and u get with another guy and the same thing happens all over again
2006-10-18 11:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were to far along for the baby to be his you didn't cheat. maybe he's just a little upset that the baby wasn't his, that is if he wanted it.
2006-10-18 11:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt even deal with that no he doesnt think you cheated he just knows the baby is your ex's and it makes him mad. i wouldnt even of kept talking to you so i think you should kiss his butt every minute of the day
2006-10-18 11:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably hard for him to swallow. Try to be understanding and talk to him about it.
2006-10-18 11:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋