When asked by someone you want to date, do you lie about how many sex partners you've had?

Question

I wonder how many people lie about how many they've done it with when they try to seriously hook up with someone. I'd like to know
1.)age
2.)If you lie about having more or less
3.) why?

Answer 1

Age 51 and no I did not lie about more or less. I was truthful. Because my past was my past. I meet my husband when I was in my late 20's. Past is behind us, future ahead of us. What would the purpose of lying about sexual partners be? Adding more means your insecure, less means your embarrassed about your past encounters. So all in all the lie part of this makes no sense.

Answer 2

1) 30's (and I will never be more specific:)
2)always
3)it's expected. When that comes up, the real question is, "Do you know me well enough to know what I want to hear?" For some women, they will be uncomfortable if you have had many liasons. For others, they will think there is something wrong with you if you have had too few. Once the relationship is -very- well established, then you can try honesty. But when dating, lie. Lie like a rug.

Answer 3

From my experiance, yes people lie at first and then they'll tell you later. All people will divide the number of partners by 3. So if someone tells you they've had 2 partners just multiply it by 3 and it will be 6.

Answer 4

I'm 23 and got with my boyfriend nearly 4 years ago. I told him the truth. I'd only been with 1 person before him and that was a terrible one night stand and once again with the same person. My boyfriend loved the fact the I'd not been with many people! I wish now that he'd been my first and only but at the time I felt I had to do it just to know what it was like and I do really regret that.

Answer 5

Age 38. No I don't lie, you have to be honest about that for better or worse. It's part of who and what you are. Every experience in life makes up the person we are today. If the someone loves you for who you are then it won't matter in the long run the number of partners in your past.

Answer 6

I never tell the truth about how many people i have had sex with. Its not bc i have had many partners i just dont think its anyone's business. When asked i stick with the number 3!
i dont lie about my age, but maybe when i get older i might.

Answer 7

I never had to lie, I never had sex until I was 19 and then I married him. I'm 54, have two daughters, been married since 1980, 26 yrs.

Answer 8

I am 21, I have had 3 partners, and I dont lie because I dont need to

Answer 9

The synopsis from those posts looks recover from it. nicely, for you that's of course much less complicated stated than executed. on the tip of the day you're able to desire to choose in case you look after her adequate to easily "recover from it". in case you are able to not, do your self and her a desire and in simple terms end it. yet do not enable absolutely everyone on the positioned up board or who you're able to communicate to head to head make you sense undesirable approximately your emotions approximately her pasts. You adult men of course have distinctive morals and that's something to contemplate once you would be in a severe relationship mutually. If the assumption-approximately your woman being banged by utilising a collection of dudes who ought to care much less approximately her bothers you... that makes you human and you're able to desire to not sense undesirable approximately that. It ability you opt for a woman with standards who hasn't been pumped and dumped. in case you are able to settle for her previous and the style of habit is definitely her previous and not some act she is putting on bc she needs to be with you and not be judged then congratulations to you. If not stop dropping it sluggish and flow on in the present day. the two way you're able to desire to get an STD attempt ASAP.

Answer 10

19 never lie it isn't worth it. She's going to find out sooner or later so you might as well tell the truth