No matter how many times you've said to yourself that its going nowhere and you are tired of feeling like you are a piece of meat, all he has to do is call you and say something really nice and you are a goner? You want to stand firm to your decision but you can't find it within yourself to let go of the one thing--even if its wrong--that makes you feel good about yourself for just a little while?
2006-10-18 03:43:23 · 17 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, that's what I'm doing to myself at the moment! And I hate it. But doesn't it feels good when he does call? Because it makes you feel that someone special cares after all. Yea, I know I really should stop thinking that way, get a grip and move on, but it's so hard!
2006-10-18 03:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by June 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had booty call relationships but I was usually the one doing the calling.
Maybe you should turn it around so that you are controlling the situation, you go out and drink and have a good time and you call him then go over do your thing and leave. Start making him feel like its a two way street. Use him as the piece of meat. But to be honest I have never been stuck on the booty call person so bad that I couldn't say I was busy now and then.
I did have a problem one night when he was doing breakfast with another girl though. That is because it was 3 in the morning and to me if you are in a booty call situation the fun with others ends at the club, if we are in a booty call thing then you shouldn't be trying to get it else where and if thats the case I don't want that booty call anymore because what was a safe situation now becomes an std worry.
2006-10-18 10:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with booty calls is that they have little to keep them fresh and a short shelf life. Eventually, the excitement and the danger associated with them is gone and you're looking for either a serious relationship or a new booty call.
If you are in this booty call just to feel good about yourself, perhaps you should put yourself on the market to find someone who will make you feel good about yourself full time instead of part time.
2006-10-18 10:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like the song "self esteem" from Offspring.
I was in a 11/2 year relationship that was just that. It was so hard and I always had it figured out untill he knocked on the door. It ended because I found someone who loved me and wanted me so I ditched the other guy and I suppose he found a new play mate.
2006-10-18 10:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there still there. My advice, if u r strong enough, stop now. Don't answer his calls or texts. Keep urself busy and try to find a guy who appreciates u for u. That relationship will give u the confidence and self-worth to last ur life, not just 1 night.
2006-10-18 10:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah as a matter of fact I have. I have probably missed out on several oppurtunities which would of lead to a much more fulfilling realtionship in the future, which would be now :(! Now I can only sit with regret, humiliation and a broken heart!
2006-10-18 11:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your a push over, well sweet thang do me a favor and just dont answer your phone for once, keep him guessing, you try playing a few games, it helps your psychy... plus yes i have had a relationship similar and i was/had the piece of meat and was used many a time, but can i complain the bictch gave good head, so what plus she had a man and a kid, so there was no future in her frontin, plus i dont mind having spontaneous booty, at least when i was in college, now i have changed my number and got a job so in time you'll learn to forget about him and just dont answer his calls no more... its simple as that
2006-10-18 10:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is on such thing as "can't end", because
a) you can always screen his calls
b) let a friend know whats going on and ask them to stop you from picking the phone when he calls
c) if you are really determined to end this, change your phone number
d) but most important YOU will need to WANT to end it in the first place.
2006-10-18 10:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by devviash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a good booty call why would you want to end it. Friends with benefits are the best
2006-10-18 10:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he was really good in bed but bad everywhere else i was feeling like i deserve better so i just NEVER answered his calls or text messages it was hard at first but it has been 2 months now so i guess im doing ok lol
2006-10-18 10:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋