Should I text him?

Question

I met this guy and he was textin me a lot I went out with him last week and he has only text me once since.
do you think I should text him or take it as he's not interested.

Its normally me that doesnt reply when im not interested, God I hate being on the receiving end.

Answer 1

personally, I would play hard to get. If he doesn't text you back soon he's not worth losing sleep over. There are plently of sweet generous guyz out there!

Answer 2

I would text him, but a maximum of 2 times, leaving about a day in between. Also do it at at different times of the day, cos it may b that u're doin it when he's workin or something.
However, the far better option (I feel) is 2 bump in2 him (accidentally-on-purpose). Once. Don't start stalkin him. When u c him, b nice enough, friendly, but make it clear (a lie, I know) that u r only there cos u're on a girly night out or woteva, & that he can come over 2 u if he wants, cos u r out wiv ur mates. If he doesn't bother when u've made urself so available, then he isn't interested. Which, of course, means he's gay!
Good luck, x

Answer 3

Okay ...this is the angle to play it. DO TEXT HIM! but be direct and firm. You would appreciated an honest answer from him, as you don't condone time wasters. You like to know if he wishes to continue that rapport. From that text alone, if you don't hear an answer. Then he is a mouse not a man. I rather be honest and straight forward ...so that way, i don't leave people hanging around and messing their mind or emotional state. It's a shame that we live in a society now! that all people tend to do ...is let down other people, without putting into consideration for the other person.

Answer 4

No, give him a ring. You'll be able to judge someone a lot easier by talking to them than the toneless voice of a text message. And be honest. Just ask him if he is interested if you're not sure. Honest y is so much easier, I don't understand why people make things so compicated for themselves with lies and innuendo.

Answer 5

Text him 1 time and see if he replies. If he does not then he is not interested

Answer 6

Well you shouldn't be worried, considering you've only been on one date with him. You should get out there and date someone else! Seriously, if he really wants to be with you he would have called the day after!! But,then again texting is expensive,so maybe he's just waiting until he gets off work!!

Answer 7

Hi, I have this mate, he met a girl at a party a few weeks ago, he told me that he texted her for a few days cos he really liked her.. 2 weeks ago I asked him how it was going with her and he said, "Oh I aint had any credit for a couple of weeks so couldnt text" I was horified and told him she would think he didnt care, and he said "omg do you think so" Men you gotta love em...lol I lent him a tenner to put on his phone... text him.. what the hell...lol

Answer 8

Give it a try - you've got nothing to lose!

Don't mention the fact that he hasn't texted you though as you may come across like a stalker, just text him and say hi, fancy meeting up again etc?

Answer 9

For god's sake yes. Men are completely useless at this text flirting thing (I know, I am one) and he is right now probably checking his phone to see whether you've text him. He probably also thinks that he has been sending too many and wants to see whether you will text him without him having to send one to you first.

Answer 10

send him a text saying something like "ok meet you there at 7" then send him another one straight away saying "oops sorry, wrong person". if he does ask who the text was meant for just tell him it was a friend you were meant to be meeting in the pub