(Ladies) What's your idea of a 'real' man?

Question

Express yourselves, and info me on your TRUE and GENUINE idea of a real man...like if you were to meet this dude like he was real, what kind of man are you wanting to meet?
1.) personality
2.) look
3.) what knowledge must he have.

Answer 1

What is a real man.....isn't that just a normal person who does not have to try to be anything other than himself. There's no criteria for what is real. What do you look for in a woman, surely you do not rule someone out because they have the wrong colour hair. If I had to match my guy against such a list I would not be going out with him, but I love him for who he is, the person, and to me he is a real man.
So if you are asking so you can become someone the ladies will flock to, forget it, just be yourself....if they don't like you they are not worth it. And maybe you are looking at the wrong women

Answer 2

There is no point imagining perfect or ideal person.. No such thing in real world, we all have our blemishes.. But there is a chance that we meet someone that is just perfect for us.. Look is not that important for being a real man, nice face is nothing when there is evil heart behind.. High education is not an advantage when he uses his mind to trick and abuse other people.. And unfortunately that is so easy to find..
Real man has self confidence, knowing what he wants from life, treating other people with respect, leaded in this world by a common sense.. And lets not forget a big heart to love and to care..

Answer 3

Well, I've found my perfect man, so I guess the best way for me to answer this is to describe him. He calls me beautfiul every chance he gets and this is the greatest when I feel like I look my worst, like right when I wake up in the morning. He's funny and playful. He allows me to be myself. He cares about me and is always a gentleman. Opening doors, holding umbrellas, offering his jacket, etc. He sorta knows how to dress, but he also accepts the help I give him in this area. He loves to cook and does so for me often (this is the key to a woman's heart, I think) If you can't cook, that's a lie, anyone that can read a recipe can cook. I urge every man to try it. And about the knowledge thing, a knowledge of current events is always a plus. A guy needs to be able to be great in a conversation as well as being great in bed! Hope this helps!

Answer 4

Well what i thought i wanted was not what i got. I wanted tall dark and handsome. I got tall. personality is a good sense of humor, let the bad roll off and get back at it. Looks do not matter much, good genes (no inbreeding) and a good brain were important. I did not know this til i was in late 20's. An education gotten or well on the way is important. You can not have a confersation with an idoit. Will he be there throw the bad times?????. Good times are easy to get through.

Answer 5

He has to be Respectful and Definitely into GOD & JESUS
Be Caring, Romantic, Truthful, Hardworking, Thoughful, and Creative if you know what I mean lol, and a sense of humor is a necessity, I really do not prefer boring/dull Guys
I would prefer someone taller than me of course, nice smile
and eyes, I'm all about the eyes and the power of them
He must have completed college at least satifactorily

Answer 6

I'm not going to lie, looks are important to me, though they're not the be all and end all. Its just nice to see a guy who takes care of himself, as its hopefully an indication he'll look after his girl. A real man who you can sustain a relationship with is not arrogant, but has enough confidence to keep you interested. Intelligent enough to have a conversation with, though not necessarily with qualifications and degrees.
The thing is, you can never be the perfect guy unless you click with the girl you're interested in. But thats not as simple as dressing nicely or finding good things to discuss. You just have to have faith that there are girls out there who will be a good match for you, and to them you will be a real man.

Answer 7

Personality: Smart, confident, decent sense of humour, knows to treat a woman like an equal.

Looks: Kind of broody, but not in an emo way.

Knowledge: Left-wing politics, literature, movies, music, what they want out of life.

If I actually wanted a man, he'd be like that.

Answer 8

,A TRUE HONEST MAN CARES FOR PEOPLES FEELINGS, WORKS TO MAKE IT WORK.. A REAL MAN IS TRUE TO HIMSELF, HE CAN CRY, AND HURT. LOOKS AND KNOWLEDGE SHOULD BE CLOSE TO YOURSELF. A MAN DOES WHAT HE HAS TO DO IN AN HONEST WAY TO FIX PROBLEMS. YOU CAN COUNT ON A HONEST MAN!!!!!!! A REAL MAN IS A BESTFRIEND THAT WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY.. AND CARES TO LEARN WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. AND A REAL MAN EXPECTS THE SAME FROM HIS WOMAN.. JUST BE HONEST NO GAME PLAYING. A MAN USALLY TELLS IT LIKE IT IS BUT MOST WOMEN THINK THEY CAN CHANGE YOU. WHEN I WAS DATING MANY MOONS AGO I GAVE A GUY 3 strikes if he hurt me made me cry or made me mad he was gone.. talk nice to her no insults. say everything in a nice way. talk and say what you really mean..

Answer 9

He doesn't have to be book smart,just as long as he has common sense. I like a guy that can make me smile for no reason and make me smile even more when I'm having a bad day! I like a guy that will let me pay for dinner ever once in awhile. My ideal guy is one that is passionat,caring,kind,loving,cute,honest,loves me and only me. I like a guy that will understand that I say and do stupid things sometimes. That sounds like the guy that I just threw to the curb....I'm trying to fix the cracks that I made in our relationship.

Answer 10

well, a real man is a man that is always on top and on his ****, respectful, nice sense of humor,trustworthy, i mean, an't nobody perfect but at the same time it's nothing wrong with getting close to perfect, so for all the fellows out there,to me, being a real man is being yourself, maybe you are a man, or maybe, you is a lil boy, but i guarantee you, its always somebody for somebody!