i met this guy. very nice and sensitive.its been about 5 months now. its clear that i love him but due to certain personal circumstances we seem to drifting apart now. he says he loves me too. i dont want him to loose interest but its really dificult to read his mind and know what he has got up his sleeves i dont want to loose him.
2006-10-18 03:24:08 · 30 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit him down and have a serious talk about things.
There is no point waiting if it will go nowhere so I would want to know.
2006-10-22 03:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like anyone wants to give ya a reasonable answer to this question does it ? Well I would say get rid of the personal circumstances that are in the way first. If he says he loves you too then don't give up, you WILL find a way to resolve things just look at the whole picture instead of part of it, then work on it from there together NOT as individuals....good luck
2006-10-18 10:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship takes more than love kiddo. You both have to want to work together to make it work. If either of you feel that you are drifting apart then you will find a way to make sure it happens. This is the first sign that you are not right for each other. Try letting things go there natural course and you will see weather or not you are right for each other.
2006-10-18 10:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say you need to invite him over for dinner, cook a nice meal & while sitting at the table, have a talk, ask direct questions & find out exactly what his plans are & make it clear what yours are. If you are meant to be together and work thru whatever is going on you can learn from honest communication how to support & assist eachother.....good luck!
2006-10-18 10:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tough one this, i think i'm in same situation!!
I only see my fella two evenings a week but most days at work, this is due to personal circumstances. I'd like to see him more often but its not possible at moment.
He told me he cant move over by me cos of his kids and vice versa. I felt like he was telling me there was no future for us!
I care for him alot and believe i love him and although i know he cares alot about me, he has told me, he'll never say he loves me!
I think we both need to sit down and chat to our fellas and find out whats going on!
Good luck!
2006-10-18 10:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If its only been 5 months and you two are starting drift then forget about and move on.
2006-10-18 10:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by David B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess only he can tell you what you need to know so do yourself both a favour and sit down and be honest to him tell him how you feel what you think and when he truly loves you he will be honest back.
Communication plays a huge part in a relationships.
2006-10-18 10:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him what his problem is.
seriously though guys always try avoiding the serious stuff(talking, commitment, etc) but ask him to have a coversation with you.
Remember everything happens for a reason!
if its not meant to be then leave it.
My ex and I love eachother so much but we were always arguing we werent right for eachother it took me a while to realise it but I got through it.
2006-10-18 10:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well..have you heard of the word "communication"
talk to him...if you don't have a good rapport and cannot say anything to each other..then does not sound like you are close..love only works if you give yourself to each other...don't hold back..talk about it!
2006-10-18 10:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, a real sit down kind of talk and see what his feelings are.
You dont need to "read" people and guess at what they are thinking due to your own projected thoughts. Actually talk to him.
2006-10-18 10:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋