Women - What is an effective way to make a girl forgive you...?

Question

Well my gf was not answering the phone for a few days and I snapped on the 4th day and called ehr a ***** and said I regret I ever met you etc...just out of intense love for her and she was not answering.

What should I give her to make her forgive me? The things I said are not that bad compared to what others say and she knows I said it out of love for her.

Choclates? She doesnt like choclates...
Flowers I am planning to take...
What else...cards? diamonds? if there was no limit...what could I give her where she would just forget everything in the past...

Give me SOME OPTIONS, the women brains!!

Common ladies...I was patient for 4 months...never said ONE negative thing to her...It was almost like I was too nice...Is it not ok to be real sometimes and say how you feel? If I called her a ***** once that does not mean I dont love her...Couples fight that does not mean she should walk away for what I said?

Answer 1

climb the mount everest and shout ''will u forgive me''!!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to know about it,but don't worry,everything's just temporary.Things will be alright soon.Honestly,if i were your gf I'll give myself enough time.Maybe then, i would realize how much i love you,if not,i would just call it " quits" with you.I guess she had reasons of doing it when she didn't answer your calls lately,maybe she was trying to give herself enough space apart from you.I believe she needs a breather when she did that.She might have some concerns that she was going through and you worsen it with what you did.You did one of damnedest things that I could ever imagine...by telling her that you" regret you ever met her" even if you say that you said that out of your intense love for her.You shouldn't have told her that.But,anyway,it was there,you have regreted what you have done,I'm sure.It's not yet too late though. You can still try to make it up with her.You may send anything that could somehow make her forgive you and forget what you did to her.Anything that could win back her heart.Be resourceful.You can send her bunches of flowers,to her office,to her house,buy her a diamond if you can...anything that could win her heart again.If she likes music,send her people to serenade her.You can do everything to someone you love most.And if she still loves you,she would readily forgive and forget everything you did,as long as you're that sincere in asking forgiveness from her.Then,make a brand new start with her afterwhich.You can make a promise that you'll be very careful this time not to hurt her,but be sure to fulfill your promise,otherwise you'll blow it again.Thanks and God bless.Best effort man,that is if you really love your girl.And after doing all these things to her,it's pay back time...haha..just kidding.Well,if she wouldn't react positively,I believe she never loved you that much.You need to find solace from someone that could give you so much love and attentions.Don't be afraid,there's always a perfect match for every person.

Answer 3

Things were said and done, even if she forgave you, there would still be a scar in the relationship.

And the things you said were pretty bad, I am not so sure sne would be able to forgive you that easily. As a woman myself, I would not forgive someone who called me a *****, that is just plain unforgivable, and on top of that you even said you regret you have ever met her, that is just making the situation even worse.

I say, you send her favourites, whether it is flowers or soft toys, do something to show some gestures, but don't overdo it, if she forgives you, she will call you.

Answer 4

She may not want to be with you anymore, in that case, there's nothing you can do. If she's waiting for an apology, send her something personal ( a thoughtful gift you know she likes ) with a poem you have written. A good start could be a list of things you love about her. Not big things, like looks. Break it down into little details, like the way she smiles when.... or the way she makes you feel in certain situations. Good luck.

Answer 5

First off, cut that 'I did it 'cos I love her' bullshit OUT. It's men with that mentality who brutalize women and say 'You made me do it.' Second, there is no 'quick fix' for your level of dickery. You truly want her forgiveness? Do you value her love and worth as a human being? Then you're *truly* going to have to *work* for it, through actions and integrity--not material trinkets. The sincerist way to say you're sorry is by not doing the offending wrong again. Learn to curtail your 'control freak' instincts, because the way you behaved was indicative of that sort of mindset. No wonder she didn't call you back for a while.

Answer 6

you can't buy anything that will erase the past, the best thing you can do is be honest and carefully explain your reaction and how it relates to the intense feelings you have for her. I don't condemn your actions, they were slightly hasty but i totally sympathise. You seem to love her a lot, and thats the best present you can give. Good luck x

Answer 7

1. It doesn't matter what other people say and do since she was not dating them
2. If you loved her that stuff would not even pop into your mind to say
3. I don't feel you have done anything you should be forgiven for. If you are going to EVER treat her like that she should just walk away

Answer 8

ok, lets start here first
why didnt she pick the phone up for almost a week?
and why do u have such a short temper to snap like that?
i suppose a card and flowers will be fine
oh yeah, funny thing: why is your name IHATEWOMEN?

Answer 9

What kind of question is this from a man that has a title of...


i hate women...

Stop kissing her *** and she won't be madd no more..

We all have bad days..
I understand trying to be nice and make up but if it doesn't work the she will get over it if she cares..

Answer 10

YOU CAN NOT TAKE BACK WHAT YOU SAID!!!!!!!! NEXT TIME THINK BEFORE YOU INSERT YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTH!!! IF SHE IS A WOMAN WITH ANY SELF RESPECT, SHE MAY JUST GIVE YOU THE CURB!! TRUST ME.........DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU GIVE HER, SHE WILL NEVER FORGET. SHE MIGHT FORGIVE BUT FORGET?? NO WAY!! TAKE HER TO DINNER AND GROVEL, BEG FOR FORGIVENESS, AND DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!!