Awhile ago, back in July, for clarification purposes, I asked a good guy friend I half-way, maybe all-the-way like (we've been friends for years) how he felt about me and he told me he was attracted to me, but had no room in his life for a relationship. A month later, I saw him at a concert and he was...super friendly, almost flirtatious. My friend commented, "I think he LIKES you!" He commented on his blog a few days later (referring to the concert) that he has "really attractive lady friends and if he wants to keep them as lady friends he'd better keep them as lady friends." That was almost two months ago and he's virtually ignored me since. I know he's very busy and has a hectic schedule, but I find it a little hard to take. I've put no pressure on him, and whatever else is there, we are FRIENDS. Or so I thought. I haven't said anything for fear of sounding--clingy, but I'm really confused. What could he be thinking?
2006-10-18 03:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Violet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a life! dont be desperate
2006-10-18 03:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are meant to be they will be, is he the last guy left on the planet that ur still thinking about him and a possible relation with him, months after he last contacted you.
2006-10-18 03:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego!!!!! Their freaks and to be honest it is them given time that they realize they cannot live without girls and the pleasant family life that comes with them.!!!!! he likes the attention you have given him in return and feels he can get more of it else were as well. Play at his game.... ignore him and next time you meet act as if nothing has gone on.... He'll come back running ......
2006-10-18 03:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a nature rule If you behinds him he will ignore you or dont have that much important but if you try to hate/ignore him he will behind you try it Best luck you need only 15 days to be away from him
2006-10-18 03:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by sanjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. He maybe really consumed with work not having time to commit any extra time or energy towards a relationship.
2006-10-18 03:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some adult adult males are embarrassed and don't comprehend a thank you to particular their emotions. So probably. whilst that takes place the lady must be the single to strike up something. Lemme comprehend in case you % recommendations!
2016-10-19 22:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is give him space. If he comes chasing you down you got what you want! If he doesn't, then it wasn't going to happen anyways!
2006-10-18 03:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
than he is not surely looking for a relationship,he is really being friends......may be the type u r may be not matching him......stop ur thinkings here only....n if he loves u than he will TAKE TIME N COME to u ok,
2006-10-18 03:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are just a waste of time as i am coming to notice but like they say you cant live with out them like they cant live without us!
2006-10-18 03:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by frankie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just give it time, if it's meant to be, it'll be
2006-10-18 03:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Machine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋