how does one reach the "o", my man is not at fault he tries all he can but its just hard for me
2006-10-18 03:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by ntu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to know what kinda gal you are, like when you are pleasing yourself, is it the rubbing or the thrusting that turns you on more and help you reach the Big O. If you can't answer that question yourself, you need to find out =P, then work on it
2006-10-18 03:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by devviash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you've 'reached' it, it becomes easier the next time because you aren't paraniod or hung up about it. My fiance can help me now, but the first time I had to rely on a little outside help.... in the form of a vibrator (if you have an ann summers near you, the rampant rabbit is awesome!!! Good luck x
2006-10-18 10:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by BritishChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it to yourself, alone!! you will be a little more comfortable and you won't feel like you have someone to disappoint. Once YOU figure out what you need you can tell him and he can try again. If you are instructing him on what and how to do it and he still can't get the hang of it, then it is your husband. Get use to doing it yourself.
2006-10-18 10:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry it seems you have so many things in your mind by the time you are relaxing with your man and it doesnt get sweet because of all those stress try and relax or you are pushing him out of the relationship he will go and get someone else if you dont work it out
2006-10-18 10:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this from oral or sex?
if it's oral then you and him probebly are at fault ..you need to relax and let go..give yourself up to him..and he needs to know where to lick you...he should be stroking his tongue consistently on your clit or any other sensitive areas..also you need to take a deep breath and relax and feel what he is doing
If it's sex. you are not getting off..then it's mental...remember, the brain is the biggest sex organ...u have to relax and get into it and give yourself up to the man completely!
2006-10-18 10:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should relax and enjoy this special time with your man. You should have him fondle you all over especially in your most sensitive parts, and while he is fondling you you should do the same to him. When the most sensitive parts are aroused that "O" is most diffidently going to flow. LOL
2006-10-18 10:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the same as you! it's really hard i just told my fella from day one that some things felt good and even thought the others felt good that they weren't going to get me anywhere. we had a day experimenting with oils, ice cream etc it was really weird but now he gets my spot straight away every time just tell him exactly what you need and get him to experiment
2006-10-18 10:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Stephanie.. You have to learn to relax and you have to know yourself.. Once you are comfortable then you can show him them you make it exciting and all is good baby girl..
Relax and have some fun..
2006-10-18 10:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some toys or a lot of different positions. Little more fore play than usual.
2006-10-18 10:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax-its a mental thing as much physical, keep practicing too, longer he goes-more foreplay etc.
try anything new you like-it will happen, friend didn't get any till like she was 25
2006-10-18 10:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋