I was at the gym and i saw this guy looking at me for quite a while, after an hour he approached me and we chatted. after i went to leave the gym and he smiled at me and said he waould see me around . we have been chatting on and off when we see each other for over 2 months. but recently i saw him, i started chatting to him, he was friendly enough. i thought it was my chance to ask him for a coffee, but he said he couldn't make it. then he totally ignored me, i'm confused as i was sure he like me and i'm not sure if he is playing hard to get or something else...
2006-10-18 03:05:13 · 13 answers · asked by goldie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know....it sounds as if he was flirting with you and enjoying the attention that you were giving him. Don't blame him too much for that - we all like a little attention sometimes. He may find you attractive and enjoy your company, but he might well have circumstances holding him back from a relationship with someone - maybe he's just recently been divorced, or maybe he's already seeing someone.
You seem like a nice enough person - and one who is confident enough to talk to someone she finds attractive. Someone else will come along soon enough, and you can work your magic on them instead. ;)
Good luck!
2006-10-18 03:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by L-Train 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't play hard to get.. They are no good. He's more than likely married. He just has not made his mind up if he's ready to cheat yet. I had one guy act like he liked me for the longest (eight years.) He was good looking too.
He finally got the nerve to ask me to go with him, i did he was two inches long. After that he never asked me to go with him again. He was so insecure about his size, he played the game, but how sad to be so good looking and have nothing to work with. Some guys are ashamed to get involved because they know their thing is really small. So if he never get really involved with you, you'll want him, but never find out what he's got in them pants.
2006-10-18 03:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably the guy was admiring you.he also have feelings for you but he is in a relationship already and d,NT want to hurt the other person.the reason why he refuse the coffee is because he do not want to get to close or bound for some thing to happen.d,NT push it just say hey and live him alone,let him come to you if any thing.
Good Luck
2006-10-18 03:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to say he is probably already with someone and when he started chatting with you he and his gf were probably having a rough time and wanted some options or i dk
2006-10-18 03:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably married with kids and a house in the suburbs. next time, just ask him if he wants to get down in the parking lot before he goes home. results may vary
2006-10-18 03:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by pitbulldawgz82 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who knows, I don't think he is playing hard to get but see what's up.
2006-10-18 03:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 month! I would have give up on you too already.
Just ask him out if he say he is seeing someone then you miss it girl.
2006-10-18 03:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involve with him you will end up getting hurt im serious this guy is not for you,so try and ignore him too and just enjoy yourself
2006-10-18 03:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's already in a relationship and was just flirting.
2006-10-18 03:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone! It's a male ego thing!
2006-10-18 03:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋