2006-10-18 02:33:21 · 9 answers · asked by champagne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months and many things in the relationship are great: he treats me wonderfully, he's smart, we have a lot of great conversations, he's handsome. However, I have concerns about the way we deal with conflict. I do not feel comfortable bringing up issues because he appears annoyed by them. I have found that being upfront and straight with him works better than being 'touchy-feely'. I think my concerns are affecting my feelings toward the relationship, but the thought of breaking up just brings me to tears, but I do think about it.
2006-10-18 02:43:23 · update #1
Sure. Why not ? You like this person, but continue to be cautious . Sounds normal to me. That doesn't mean anything. The fact that the relationship continues says something pretty optimistic.
2006-10-18 02:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be in a relationship for 7 months, 7 years, or 70 years and still have concerns. No relationship is perfect, and there are always issues. What matters is if the issues are something you can live with and work through.... if not, then move on.
2006-10-18 02:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. A lot of people stay in realationships wondering if they should stay or leave. However, it is not a good decision. If u are not sure on whether u should stay or leave and u stay anyway, u will hurt the person u r with bcuz u r leading them on and making them think u want to be with them. I suggest u make up ur mind about what u wanna do
2006-10-18 02:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what those concerns are. If they are minor and able to be talked out, then there's no problem. However, if they are more serious in nature and involve whether or not the relationship will survive, no it's not normal and needs to be addresses as soon as possible.
2006-10-18 02:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we were always certain about everything in life then life would be that much easier, but its not! That is oh SO normal!!! Ive been in mine for 3 years and i still dont know if im doing the right thing by staying with him. I have so much doubt about our future and wether im even gonna be happy or not. Yeah it's a scary feeling to not feel stable and secure with your relationship but it is sure as heck normal!! If your having doubts about your feelings for him....thats nothing but a sign. Give it another try. Try to save it but i only believe in seconed chances...so if it doesnt work then...its not going to. (My belief+experience) GOODLUCK
2006-10-18 02:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by pinkskies0421 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that a relationship that did not have concerns, would be a very rare bird, but if they are huge and require a big change in a person, then I would seek help now.
2006-10-18 02:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you always have concerns, I think to what degree is the question! I believe there is a point to get away from it, or to go on with it. This depends on your concerns! The basis there of:
2006-10-18 02:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** I have been in a realtionship for and year and ahalf. And I have tons of concerns but I still stay in it. I guess Im waiting for a wrong step to be made. And if there isnt one.. Im here to stay! =)
2006-10-18 02:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Partly,yeah.It's normal
2006-10-18 02:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Eevi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋