My bf likes it when I am on top during sex. However, I dont really know how to do it right coz whenever I am on top, friction reduces and I cant make him ejaculate. Any tips on how to sit right etc?
2006-10-18 02:30:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm, what about turning the other way, not facing him but facing his feet, or squatting in front of him while he's laying down. try them both.
2006-10-18 02:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by newcastle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not a problem, just a physical difference. I've never known a man that can ejaculate as easily in that position as when he's on top. Women tend to grind when they're on top... and men usually need the thrusting motion to ejaculate. Its a good position if you want it to last a while, but if you're looking for a quickie.... skip it.
2006-10-18 02:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is start out slow. If u just get on top and go fast then the whole thing will go wrong. When u start out at a slow speed and then start to speed it up, it brings a lot more feeling. And learn how to move ur hips and body to a motion he likes. This will make him feel better
2006-10-18 02:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your cues on him, do what he does when he's on top. I can make my guy come but he helps by holding on to my hips and kind of push me up and down. When he feels that I'm getting tired he rolls us over and switch positions. Then we'll stay like that for a while w/o moving just kissing It feels so good...Then he'll start moving slowly at first and then...well you know what happens next....
2006-10-18 02:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a copy of the Cosmo Kama Sutra and go to town! Most of the fun is figuring out how to do the positions-just practice until you get it right!
2006-10-18 02:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alliwagoneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your on top try sitting up straight, tighten your muscles and get both of your thighs as close to his stomach as possible. And basically go from there.
2006-10-18 02:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate being on top, I cant do it right LOL..... I dont know the answer to that.
2006-10-18 02:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what position you've been using, but I think the woman sitting upright is easiest.
2006-10-18 02:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat you are. My boyfriend told me to thrust my hips instead of moving my whole body.
2006-10-18 02:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes is because he can last longer......Try reverse cowgirl it will give him a good view and help him along a bit.
2006-10-18 02:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by kim_buy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him help you guide your hips. Or lean back using your hands for leverage on the bed.
2006-10-18 02:34:42 · answer #11 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋