I am so attracted to him I can hardly keep my composure I can not even look at this guy anymore he has been looking at me in such a way for months now and it makes my knees weak and I feel like stumbling over my feet why has he not seen that why does he not run over and take my breath away?I really want to be with him I don't know him at all...I feel frustrated like I am loosing it!
2006-10-18 02:07:58 · 15 answers · asked by Fuck off 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He works in a store and he is always working and The eye contact happens when he is having lunch outside or sometimes I spontaniously see him and its allot the other night my friend and I went to a res/bar and he was there shock how random and she was like mmm the way he looks?
2006-10-18 02:15:12 · update #1
Well it sounds like lust if you "dont know him at all". Just walk up to him and ask the time or directions to somewhere and take it from there.
2006-10-18 02:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by jaylynn_tx 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Approach him the same way that you would want him to approach you. It can't be that hard -- we guys have do it all of the time.
Walk up to him and strike up a conversation as if he were a GIRL that you were trying to meet. He is a human being after all, so treat him like one -- stop thinking of him as a god or something, you will psych yourself out. Tell yourself that it is no big deal if he likes you or not, because it isn't. The opinion of just one person does not matter in the grand scheme of things, since if he doesn't like you, someone else will. Tell yourself that if he doesn't like you, then he has missed out on getting to know someone as special as you. If you tell yourself that it is no big deal, you will relax, and you will be more likely to succeed.
2006-10-18 09:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what do have here another person who is maried or are you?/ we dont know the, ressons behind your thing you have for this other person, but if you two are truly single then whats the problemm?? if you are just day dreaming and the other person is married or you then move on downe that lonely highway of life and forget itt especially if the other person you want too flop in bed with has kids and a wife. if hes maried you have lost itt. if you two are single then go for itt otherwise get over this, thing real fast. if hes been gawking at you then go for itt.
2006-10-18 09:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and say hi my name is ____. Give big smiles and flirty eyes as you talk to him. Try not to be goofy though.lol Tell him you have noticed he was watching you and that you want him to take you out sometime. Sometimes a flirty,but not slutty, way of telling them what you want is the best. Maybe he is shy. The shy ones are the most fun,lol
2006-10-18 09:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by determined26a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and find a convenient way to be walking near him, then YOU walk up to him and say hello. Trust me, if you approach him and are friendly he will reciprocate and start chatting with you. Guys are so pumped when women initiate the conversation because WE usually have to work so hard to start a rap and we get rejected more often than not! lol
2006-10-18 09:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just have to find the courage within yourself to go up to this guy and let him know how you feel. if he shares the same feelings then you can move forward but until you make the first move you prob will never know what could have been. Good luck
2006-10-18 09:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
juz say hi to him first...... but u muz keep cool or else things will get out of hands u know.. he might think u r some kind of freak... initiate frenship... n u know the best way is to get to know the frenz tat he hang out with first.. they will intro u to him after tat... at least u won't stumble when u approach the frenz rite :)
2006-10-18 09:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself, keep a smile on your face,and have eye contact with him.
Make homemade cookies for him. Guys love that kind of thing. :) (if you want do it and not have him know who did it, place it where he will see it)
2006-10-18 09:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation was reversed, how would you want HIM to approach YOU ?????
Start with "hi" and go from there.
2006-10-18 09:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by scottm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so why would u be the one who approaches him if he has been looking at u for months? let him come to u. but if he hasn't come yet it sounds very fishy . he is up for smth. i wouldn't approach him if i were u. if a guy likes a girl he will come to her first even if smbd breaks his legs and arms
2006-10-18 09:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋