My ex of three months from summer of last year wasnt "ready for committment" but still texts me every week and more so in the last few months. Mostly saturday nights. We never had sex so its not like he is totally using me. I agreed to see him last Saturday night and a had a few drinks, after a while I just got up and left the pub without telling him. He never actually texts me to see if i want to go somewhere for a beer or whatever only when we maybe already out. I wonder would walking out on him Saturday night make him want me more or would he just forget about me after what i did. He did text and ring etc wondering where I had gone.
2006-10-18 01:58:29 · 16 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're playing games. Grow up
2006-10-18 02:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by koral2800 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why the hell you left without telling him. If you donot want him, first of all you shouldn't have gone with him. If you want him, then don't play this game, give him a good saturdaty night!!. Give and take, nothing to lose!
2006-10-18 02:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's only texting you on saturday nights...he's probably lonley combined with the male desire to "have" something he cant. I wouldnt waste my time with him until he texts you on a tuesday afternoon, just to say hi.
2006-10-18 02:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by ianmaddux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are playing games, you need to figure out what you want and then go from there, any decent guy would call you to make sure you were OK, but keep playing games and you are likely not to hear from him anymore.
2006-10-18 02:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea22306 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to talk to you that much, he may not see himself as your ex. Obviously he has no life outside of you so that's why he wants to do stuff while you're out (he has no friends).
If he annoys you, then tell him. Tell him thats why you're ex's and you would appreciate if he would leave you the heck alone.
2006-10-18 02:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man and woman set up to go to a bar together.
She leaves without telling him.
He wonders if someone kidnapped her, if she went home with someone else, if he did something wrong... Was she kidnapped, was she killed... Is she in trouble?
VERY IMMATURE! (And really stupid.)
Some guys who can't find a better woman than you would want you back. Real men don't want head cases.
2006-10-18 02:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he wants you now! Do you want him to want you? If so, quit with all the mind games and just state what you want! If he's not into it, go on with your life. No big deal!
2006-10-18 02:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u juz wanna spend some time with u... u really shouldn't have walked out on him (or anyone else for tat matter).. its kinda rude... if u think he's bothering u and u want him to stop calling/texting u, then tell him.. don't lead him on...
2006-10-18 02:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a good explaination for not answering and then take it from there. Shouldn't be too bad. You'll be fine hun. Good luck xx
2006-10-18 02:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by thelayla_scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, walking away for a bit and let them wonder will make them want you more I think!
2006-10-18 02:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by June 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋