my son i think is going to get his heart broken. he has had it broken twice before by two other girls not his fault those times. He is the one who messed up this time. I'm afraid for him. what can i do.
2006-10-18 01:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by b d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 21 and i'm afraid he will be thrown in to a graet depression.
2006-10-18 01:42:09 · update #1
there is really nothing you can do but be there for him.....if he is an adult the BEST thing you can do is stay out of it and be there to offer your supprt IF it happens..but how do you know it will happen...maybe it wont....if he is a teenager he will bounce back easier if you dont make too big a deal of it..good luck
2006-10-18 01:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for him no matter what happens. We live in world where moral values and proper conduct are really messed up. As a mother you all ready know this so do your best to support your son and help him understand that life is full of ups and downs. Enjoy the ups and be strong through the downs and no matter what happens you will survive. Good luck dear.
2006-10-18 08:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okayyy - Listen to a guy who's damage list is longer than his.... well. Its long.
Strippers aren't the answer. Always... If your son doesnt mind putting on a tad bit of weight, chocolate hobnobs and milk always take my mind off things, alternatively, in america, I believe you can buy some sort of cookie dough compund that's to die for!.
If the damage is worse than that, - Original source mint shower gel. Shower, be revitalised. Then go down to the shooting range. find a safe way to alleviate anger, without worrying too much about the repercussions.
2006-10-18 08:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Frozen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your son is a wonderful person because you are a loving mother. Try to remember that you raised him to be responsible. Even if and when we make mistakes, we must accept responsibility for our actions and try to make things right. If things can not be fixed, at least apologize and move on. It takes time to get over a love hurt, but he will. Time and God are great healers. Maybe you can ask him to church with you. Maybe he will meet his new love there. Or not. Pray for him, show him good examples of behavior and love. Be supportive of him. We all make mistakes, but hopefully he will learn from his and go on to have a wonderful life. God bless you and your family.
2006-10-18 08:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bibi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage him to not be so sensitive. Yes, broken hearts are normal but they shouldnt be so casual. Help him to understand that women come and go but that THE ONE will be forgiving, and sincere, and worth it! Maybe dating is better than having a SERIOUS relationship until he's older and ready to settle down.
2006-10-18 08:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. There is only one cure for a broken heart - time. Nothing else works. Nor can anyone else help either. It just take the natural healing that time gives us.
2006-10-18 08:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to hm, But the only solution in growwing up is let nature take its course, he will learn by his mistakes which will only make him stronger and more ex[iernced in dating. been there i have a 16yr old daughter. talk positive never negitive never tell them i told you so!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-18 08:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by BigWally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough but he can only learn from his mistakes,as only that will make him a better human being.
2006-10-18 08:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by chrisre4w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just support him its part of life you cant appreciate happiness until you have experienced heartbreak.you never been heartbroken i doubt it we all do some time in life.just one of those things.times the healer.
2006-10-18 08:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back, its all part of life's pain, what does not kill us makes us stronger, just be there for him when he needs you.
2006-10-18 08:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋