I've been seeing this guy for 4 weeks. We get along well, we're perfect 'on paper'-- we like the same kinds of things, and seem compatible.. but I feel like I'm getting stuck in a relationship where I don't want to be. I don't like him anymore than I did at the beginning of our relationship, and I don't think that we work together. He's very inexperienced when it comes to relationships, and it's frustrating for me. Yet, I still do like him, and I want this to work out for many reasons.. I'm just not sure if they are the right ones.
2006-10-18 01:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by Melissa A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're bound to run into problems with any relationship, but a feeling of being stuck appears to be the basis of this one. Not a good sign. It sounds to me like the two of you might get along well, if you're just friends, but you weren't meant to be lovers.
If he can't accept that, you might have to break it off with him completely. If he does accept it, as his friend, you might even be able to offer him some support, kind of like what he might get from a sister, as he pursues other relationships.
2006-10-18 01:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call a time out with this dude and think about what you want from this relationship and if you are going to get it. In order for a relationship to work both parties should be working towards a goal and should have clear communication between the two of them. Tell him that you need time to things through and that you guys are still together, it's just that you are very confused at the moment and don't know which way to turn. Be honest with him and he will understand. Best of luck and be sure to check out my 360 or check me out on annelize-sexylee600.blogspot.com if you should need any more advice for free.
2006-10-18 08:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Four weeks in nothing in a relationship, but only you can decide the amount of time investment.
Personally, I think you should part ways, as you come off as being a bit impatient and wanting more, but not willing to work at it
2006-10-18 08:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to fix the problems ypu have by talking with him but don' lose too much time life is short. First of all decide are the reasons woth for making efforts about this relationship
2006-10-18 08:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months
2006-10-18 08:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by sexyback1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a month is enough time to decide you just want to throw it away......if you really like him, that is.......if you're in the relationship just to be in the relationship, then its not worth it at all.......
2006-10-18 08:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a no tolerance kinda girl, so soon as I get the feeling I"m out! Life is short! damn that love the one ya with stuff!
2006-10-18 08:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't stay in a relationship just because it is comfortable and you have a BF.
Good Luck,
O'hock
2006-10-18 08:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a personal choice, no one can answer that for you. If you truely not happy and prefer the friendship let him know before things go for so long someone gets hurt.
2006-10-18 08:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem not to be in love but you just like him.... if you were in love,,,, you would do anything to keep him and also teach him what he does not know.
listen to your heart well, if your sure you dont love him let go before you hurt him the more and proberbly just be friends.
hope this helps you out.
2006-10-18 08:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋