2006-10-18 01:22:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Absolutely. Marriage is man-made, sex is natural. That doesn't mean I think you should do it with anyone who smiles at you, but I don't think it's anything sinful either.
What would happen if you married someone and found that you were sexually completely incompatible? I know sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it's still important.
2006-10-18 01:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO, but I do believe in learning to spell before sex especially went the site offers a "CHECK SPELLING" option!!! I also wonder with "Diane H's" therory, Is sex any safer after marriage and do the facts she mention go away with marriage? Some say you should try out the merchandise before you buy it! That to me is personal preference! Then again, why buy the cow if the milks free?? Personally, as long as you're not popping kids out for the rest of us to foot the bill, I don't see any harm in two people sharing their love married or not! Furmones is a natural thing that extracts the animal forces from you! It's an involuntary function related to human nature.
2006-10-18 01:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hm,
It exists, of course. But I never practiced it by my choice. I have been forced into it, and since then, I really had no desire to with men. Of course fooling aroud and kissing girls in cutsey relationships was one thing, and fun while growing up. I felt cheap and dirty everytime when I thought about having sex with guys, when they asked me, and flirted...etc. I don't regreat being 'easy' or getting a lot of sex in highschool, because I had less stress, and not as much to worry about! I didn't have to worry about an unwanted child, or diseases, or any other problem like that. I also was not fixated on it, and did a lot of things, rather than getting drunk and screwing all of the time... It just never appealed to me...
I am choosy, even with just dating, so I knew if i was gonna get married, it would be a guy that I knew I could love and trust, and the only one I would have sex with...and if no one was good enough, then I wasn't getting married.
So I wasn't really into the idea of getting married, though, but I finally met my husband. We waited until we were married. Sex wasn't a basis of our relationship, so we had nothing like lust or whatnot in our way. He was so passionate, and loving, and genuinely caring, I knew he would just be perfect for me. Something felt so right about him...and I was right....so after an amazing relationship that we made permanent, I can freely enjoy sex. I won't lie, I was dreading it, all I knew of it was that I hated it, and it was terrible for me...I enjoyed getting off, but not the idea of sex...I was suprised when I enjoyed it...but waiting to find someone I love was well worth it, and simply amazing.. ;-) I didn't do it for religious purposes, It's just a personal prefrence...
I could of went into my thoughts about it more...It kinda ended up an explanation of my actions instead, oh well..
2006-10-18 16:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Yeop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! How else are you supposed to know if you're made for each other?
Without sex before marriage, too many people end up in a sex-less marriage, due to the fact that they aren't sexually compatible, and yet are forced to remain faithful due to their religious convictions.
Sex before marriage "should" be essential even if the organised religions and "jesus-freaks" would consider this an act worthy of burning in hell. That's because they would outlaw sex if they could... But they need people to continue having sex to procreate and spawn more humans for their propaganda.
So yes, I believe in sex before marriage. I believe sex to be an excellent (if not THE BEST) way to find out about the other person/find out who you're dealing with / find out if you are sexually compatible.
2006-10-18 04:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I don't, and I think the bible is clear on that fact. Even if you don't care what the bible says about it the reasons for only having sex in a marriage can keep you from having a lot of problems , plus remember when you have sex with a person you are having sex with every person he or she has had. There are so many STD diseases that can be life threatening and it can make you unable to have children if you are a woman. Really, is it worth it?
2006-10-18 01:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Diane H 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I do not because I firmly believe that sex is only for 2 people who are married. Why? Well, in the bible, God had already made Adam and he told him that he did not want him to be by himself. So, he made him Eve as his complement. God put them together as husband and wife. They were to become "one-flesh" and God gave them the command to "Be fruitful, become many and subdue the earth." In other words, have children. And they did. They were married when they had sex. So, as their offspring, we should too.
2006-10-18 01:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by MiamiChick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as much as possible. But seriously. If you really believe in marriage then once you take the vows,thy're binding. Try out with your partner. You may not be able to see eye to eye and then you'll feel trapped. First thing would be to discuss it first, you may even get horny...
2006-10-18 01:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by kwenzini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your religion, bit if it is what you want to do then that is up to the individuals involved. I personally think you show have sex and live together before you get married.
2006-10-18 01:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe in waiting. I am waiting and it has turned out great for me. I have had friends come back to me wishing that they waited like me. They mademistakes and really regret it. It's all up to you and if you are comfortable and you are doing it for yourself then good. Don't ever do it for anyone else.
2006-10-18 01:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ebony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only after you've learned to spell!
Also believe in sex after marriage. Doesn't seem to be real popular though.
2006-10-18 01:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by wmf936 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋