I have been talking to this online for about 2 weeks. The conversation was great and everything seemed cool. I finally met him yesterday and we went to his place to chill. As soon as I walked through the door he pulled my clothes off and started performing oral sex. I was so freaked out but I didn't say anything I was just kind of in total shock. Then after he did that he said let's just take a nap 2gether so we did for about 2 hours. Once we woke up he started again with the oral sex then he proceeded to put a condom on and we had sex. Then we just chilled for a minute and he tried to start it up again up again with oral sex. That was it I told him I had to go it was too much for me. He said that he was just liking me a whole lot and was trying to do things to make me feel good. What do you guys think I should do? Should I still continue to see him?
2006-10-18 01:05:39 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though you had been talking to him that seem's a little fast. If i were you i would tell him not so fast next time and if he tries anything again then cut him off. But it's really how you feel. if your gut tells you to see him again then go for it, if not then dont. Always listen to you gut, if you dont then you'll be sorry later down the road.
2006-10-18 01:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mandie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not continue to see him or continue to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Never go to someone's house you just met on the internet. Get to know them somewhere out in the open first. You don't say how old either one of you are. Don't let anyone take advantage of you. I did and I am an adult. It happened to me from an online dating service.
2006-10-18 08:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Carolyn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have wanted it and even liked it if you let him do it. Meeting people on line is a bad idea when you are not in a public area. Just be thankful he didn't rape you, kill you, kidnap you, or something like that. You need to be more cautious when you meet strangers from the internet.
2006-10-18 08:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...hell no. Not unless you want the relationship to be strictly sex. He was looking for some bootay and he got it. Next time a guy invites you over to his house...just know that it's about sex and not about getting to know you as a person. Oh yeah, he was thinking about you alright...thinking about what is between your legs.
2006-10-18 08:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend
on your first sentence you used the word online.that is the first no no, the rest of it, seems to me you found yourself a perverted sex maniac, unless you like that end it now, if that honestly happened to me i would have went to the police,unless you wanted it.howdo you feel about the situation??leave what he says. its a fact a guy will give you the world to get in yoúr pants, and silly us, we beleive it!!
2006-10-18 08:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by elenaki_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u guys just know each other. get to know each other more then do sex. u guys r too fast for it. but i dont know him so.. u know different guy have different point of view.. or behvaior.. personality.. maybe some guys really want to have sex just to make u feel good by it BUT some just use u to have sex
2006-10-18 08:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy weird... this guy is a super freak and thats scary. you really didnt get to know him on a personal level. chalk it up as a one night stand and leave the online weirdos alone..
2006-10-18 08:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by hot lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you've already done it now! talk to him... tell him you are a little weary about his actions. Ask him to slow down....go over once more...if it's the same..then don't go back.....but hell, if you liked the sex....do it! Guys do it all the time.
2006-10-18 08:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.. so you met him and he started eating.. then you took a nap.. then you boned.. ok... umm.. . HAHAHAH .. umm.. yeah.. you should definately continue seeing him... i don't see why not! i mean.. gosh! are you retarded? NO!! do not see this guy!!! i swear! get some common sense!!
2006-10-18 08:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by comemychildren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he only wanted to get in your pants
2006-10-18 08:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by jerrycarter1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋