Im going to move in with my bf for 4 months in a month. I dont live in the same country with him ,so when I move there, I would have to leave my family and friends and pets and everything..last night when we talked , I told him ill probably get homesick,so ill want to come and visit my family now and then. he got all nervous,and said he can not put up with me coming and going all the time,and that it would be too much for him.(like me leaving everything for him,is nothing).and i feel he is using me. when we go out,he makes me pay, when we make love,he just does it,turns his back and goes to sleep,when i told him i wanted to see a movie and since i cant drive,that would he drop me off and pick me up later(since he doesnt like the movie) he said no..and i have found some rather juicy convos of him talking to another girl on msn,saying he wouldnt mind breaking the rules for her(shes got children and a bf).if he cant even do little things for me then should i leave everything for him??
2006-10-18 00:55:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! He is obviously using you and he obviously doesn't care. I just had the same disappointment last week with my boyfriend of 5 months, he made me believe he loved me and i just found out all his lies about other girls, about everything. He lied about everything he could. Now I'm just still trying to understand why he did all those things to me and i cant and probably never will. I'm so hurt its not even funny and if he really cared about you he should never ever keep you from seeing your family that's wrong. He is not worth it so let him go he doesn't want a relationship. Dint make the same mistake i did. You have to look out for yourself because no one else will so don't let him take advantage of any situation. He's up to no good.
2006-10-18 01:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Peruvian Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he sounds like a control freak and he will not even drop you off at the movies? What a loser. My husband would drive me to the ends of the earth if he had to. Leave him he is a loser find someone who will appreciate you. He will cheat on you if he is already talking about breaking the rules. Do not leave family and friends and pets for this loser. Okay? Stay where you are and find someone nice who will treat you alot better than this jerk does. Good Luck and God bless.
2006-10-18 08:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i cant believe that u got a boyfriend who is worst than my ex-boyfriend, i though i got the worst.
well, as what i read in ur question. i think u shuld just break up with him.
i know how to feel cuz i used to ask peole here about my relationship problem in this website and everyone tell me that my boyfriend is not worth it even though i know he is bad but i just cant say break up cuz i really really love him.
BUT
now i have break up with him, i feel really good at least i am not torture by him anymore and i so miss him sometime.. but it will gone soon. trust me!
dont do anything for him anymore cuz later if u do too much u will end up even more SAD then u r now. TRUST ME! even though u try to keep the relationship but it WILL NOT LAST!
sorry if i give u something that u dont wanan heard but it is all that i hope people dont be depression about bad guy anymore.
good luck ^^
2006-10-18 08:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no because in the end with the way this sounds ur just going to get hurt really bad and u dont deserve that. it would be wrong of him to get mad for u going to see ur family and friends. i wouldnt trust it esp. with him in another country. plus he makes u pay and obviously theres no physical attraction between you 2 if he just does it and then turns over n goes to bed. i can tell u that me and my bf for 3 years always cuddle or something like that afterwards. do what u wanna do but itd be best for u to not trust it and find someone else.
2006-10-18 08:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would stay the hell away from him. if he can't do little things 4 u do u think he will take care of u if u r ill. pls don't leave the comfort of yr loving and caring family and freinds. T o make things worse he is already cheating on u b4 u have moved in. come on .
2006-10-18 08:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by white fung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave him. im sorry bu he sounds like a selfish prat. also 4 months is too early to move house never mind to another country. if u dont get a job there he wount look after u. u will end up with nothing or maby even worse (heaven forbid) i dont htink you should move because u obv dont feel right about it
2006-10-18 07:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is very inconsiderate, and I'm concerned that he might be dangerous as well. He's trying to cut you off from your family. That means you will have no source of support, other than him, and he will be in total control. This man is trouble. Get away from him.
2006-10-18 08:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this boyfriend of you is leading you on, he dont seem to care about your family. your friends or even your pet at home.
You should stay with your family and those friends who knows you more than he does. it looks like he just want you do everything he want you to do and you never get the chance to do what you want, is like his control your life.. and if this was me, I would think this boyf is not worth it because he meant to be allow us (girls) have the chance to be with our family and friends and not limit them.
2006-10-18 07:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be a vast mistake on your part if you should move in with your boyfriend. Can you imagine a life where he is controlling your every moves? I certainly wouldn't not tolerate anything of that nature.
2006-10-18 08:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way girl, he's most definitely not worth it!! Do not give up everything for him!! Stay where you are.....you'll find someone who will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve!!
2006-10-18 08:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋