when u go up to a girl that u like what u should u say to start the conversation?

Question

yeah as we go on and i ask her out whats to do next i mean what do i do if she says yes

Answer 1

To break the ice of the first conversation, try to be smart and play a little game with your prospects.

1. Try to learn as much information about them as you can.
Information about their families, pets, favorite food, birthdays etc. These makes wonderful topic for starting unconventional chat. It always boosts the conversation, and usually you can learn enough to know if she wants to see you again.

2. You discovered that she or he loves movies. You can then follow up on it.
How about the new movie hit? Or the latest development in widely popular movie technology? The possibilities for interesting topics are endless: DVD's, digital cameras, computer games …

3. Ask questions.
And try to make them "why", "how", or "what" questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes", "no", or "maybe". Instead try something like: "So, what was your favorite part of Sex and the City?"


4. Get involved.
Try your hand at chatting in a crowd. Groups of people get together and shoot the bull. See if you can tell a joke or be witty or bring up an interesting tidbit of information.

5. Come across your way to the clarification
Whenever you're faced with a dilemma; focus on the solution rather than on the difficulty. Think and talk about the ideal solution to the obstacle

Answer 2

Start with a chilled out attitude,totally a guyish one but not d high hand handed attitude as it gets 2 gals nerves.Then if she is ur classmate or colleague,then discuss abt those common interests u share.don't open up urself first,as u may turn up 4 a negative impression,try 2 learn more abt her.Then ask her cordially and express ur feelings.if she say yes,be always urself,gentle,cool,chilled out.and dont try 2 b a psued.

Answer 3

you always have to make questions,that way she will answer and you will know her better,you will find out what she likes.questions like:what is youre favorit flower,whay do you like to do. you can ask her out:if she likes listening muzic you take her in a nice place to dance or just listen muzic,you can take her to swim,to play snooker if she doesent know you will teach her.take her in the places that you like so she can know you,with youre friends or another cuple.tell her that you like her still,her lips,that you like her dress,she is the most beautifull girl,that you never felt the way you feel for her cause she is special.that way even if youre relation with her doesent go she will remember you as a nice gay and she will tell athor girls how charming you are.

Answer 4

if she says 'yes', then you need to think about planning for your date. Find out what she likes and take it from there.

Answer 5

Say, "Ok, is 6 pm Saturday good for you? I'll pick you up then, for a nice dinner & a movie" or something to that efffect.......I'm glad I'm a girl.....all I ever had to do was bat my eyelashes and look pretty......:D

Answer 6

if she says yes i guess you should ask her what she would like to do for the first date ........... talking will happen if you remember to listen

Answer 7

hi! can i buy you a drink? are you single/ do you feel like going to the cinema with me?

Answer 8

casual say "hello, what you been up to lately? or even hows your day been?

Answer 9

ask her number