i met a guy online we met up for few dates and both in simlar suitations after 3rd date he said he thought he was falling for me and found this scary after such a short time i told him i felt the same as him we met twice again and everything was great then got a text to say he was ill and would text when better few days later got another text to say he was felling bit better but having major domestic trouble and his head was in a mess and needed few days to sort it out it has been nearly a week now and have not heard from him do i text him or is this just a way of saying i dont want to see you again
2006-10-18 00:46:15 · 25 answers · asked by annemarie o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not married seprated 3 yrs
2006-10-18 03:19:03 · update #1
Well take it from a man. This is a way of avoiding you for some reason. Dont take it to heart, forget him as he is clearly lieing to you. There is alot more fish in the sea. Yuo dont need a man thats going to lie to you all the time.
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2006-10-18 00:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone him, if he says i'll have to call you back the batteries dying on his mobile its a cert he isn't intrested. he could have met someone before you and was just hedging his bets as it were in case he didnt score with the other person. sorry to seem blunt. and with no disrespect to yourself but the internet is full of losers creeps and liars who seem to think that a person in text isn't a real human. but my head could be falling off i would still be able to return a text or a phonecall his illness is a cover for something more obvious i'm sorry to have to point it out. forget about him.
2006-10-18 08:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,who wouldn't want to feel love and excitement for someone?I think that's too hard to find.Ä°f he's feeling like that why wouldn't he go for it? I mean isn't it what we all looking for?Let him do the thinking whatever that might be,you should relax and think.Ä°f the guy doesn't know what he wants,what would he do to you when you're in a relationship and things get serious? Run away? I think he doesn't want to take responsibilities and maybe something else.What I would suggest to you is you also wait ,wait and see...Good luck my friend :-)
2006-10-18 07:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say text him and tell him the way you feel, if this guy really is genuine then he will text you back either way, put in the text that if you haven't heard from him in how ever long you want to give him, then you will take it as he doesn't want anything to do with you, i believe if his feeling for you are true then he will text you back. Good luck hope it all works out for youx
2006-10-18 07:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in similar situation only I was the one "making the excuses". He could be genuine and needs time but I (through experience) wouldnt get involved with someone already in a relationship, it almost certainly will end in tears.
Hope I have helped you. Good luck!
2006-10-18 07:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by pinky perky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Could Be married??
But I would lay it on the line to him and give him the Option to say YES or NO to continuing the Relationship!
2006-10-18 07:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted a quicky, having major domestic trouble and his head was in a mess means he is married.
2006-10-18 07:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Domestic trouble? Is the guy married or something??
Run - away!
2006-10-18 07:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Simon C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him or talk to him again! He must be married! Don't get involved in this it is only trouble down the road!
2006-10-18 07:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say text him, at least you will know one way or the other. if he doesn't text back you know then and can move on instead of wondering. my motto is be straight up its easier in the long run so text him.
2006-10-19 10:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋