my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and 2 months ago I told him I loved him which i thought at first was a huge mistake coz he didnt tell me he loved me back but ever since then he has done things that makes me think he loves me too like he threw me a suprise birthday party a month ago and just the other day he was leaving to go to work and he came right back in i thought he forgot something but he gave me rose that he pick from outside. So what im asking guys is why would be afraid to tell someone you love them if you really do...or do you think that since he has not told me that he really does not.
2006-10-17 22:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by LoLa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is still getting over a hurt from the past -- he acts likes he loves you and time will bring him around guys are sometimes a little slow when it comes to the big "L" word--relax and enjoy the rose
2006-10-17 23:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he should come out and say it. With that said, most guys have a problem telling a woman how much he loves her because as guys we are programmed from upbringing not to cry or show outward emotions. We are afraid that we would be percieved as weak, soft or whipped by others if we went out and told a woman we loved them.
2006-10-18 06:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that he doesn't love you or he is unsure or afraid to, he may have been hurt by it in the past and unaccepting of it now. You have been with him long enough to sit down and talk about it with each other.
-NmD!
2006-10-18 06:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not saying it in words; but he his expressing his love in those roses & stuff like that. I feel that he loves you the way you love him
2006-10-18 06:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you a lot. I can't believe both of you waited that long to say it. I say it in a month or two.
2006-10-18 05:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action always speaks louder than words! How awesome for you!
2006-10-18 06:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shy,
actions speak louder than words.
2006-10-18 06:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by devilinme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you a lot he's just to scared to say it so he expresses it in what he does instead
2006-10-18 06:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Michael C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been afraid i've always been the firts one to say it
2006-10-18 05:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by robruscoates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's acting like it, give him some time but keep telling him how you feel.
2006-10-18 05:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋