such a funny Q. but really bugs me if am i committing a sin to my wife,...need some advice or steps on how to deal with it...and just for the record i just got married 2 weeks ago
2006-10-17 21:27:06 · 19 answers · asked by Tnggilizer 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It's not good..
2006-10-17 21:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey you're fantasying about the other women while you are making love to your wife?
That does not constitute cheating because you are having sex with your wife not someone else.
I don't think that what you are doing is wrong but it is part of the whole sexual experience,so keep fantasizing but I wouldn't tell your wife. She would probably feel hurt. Good Luck
2006-10-17 21:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate!! u r only human!... if thats your thing well then so be it. Every1 has their own sexual ideals. If u truly love your new bride then there is no real harm but as i said....only if u truly love HER!....but just spare her feelings by not telling her the details!! The only thing i would worry about is...is the women u dream about...women u know or celebs??? as long as u look but dont touch...as a wife of 12 yrs i wouldnt have a problem with it.
2006-10-17 21:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you say it's funny and neither do i find it remotly funny but if this i what you do maybe 2 weeks ago when you got married you should hav thought a little harder on thatt subject like you do to use your wife as a sex object to fantasize of other women. You should be ashamed of yourself
2006-10-17 21:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife and treat her kindly then who cares about what you need to think about to stay turned on in the bedroom.
It's actions that matter. Controlling sexual thoughts just isn't a good idea. What you are describing isn't abnormal.
God doesn't belong in the bedroom - don't think of things in there in terms of sin!
2006-10-17 21:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine the woman you're having sex with is your wife from 5 years ago.
2006-10-17 21:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by solidwhetstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is difficult to tell. Had you got sex w/ some women beside your wife before? if the answer yes, so i think it's normal. But you have to stop to think about somebody else during having sex w/ her ok. Otherwise it will ruin your marriage life soon or later. good luck dude.
2006-10-17 21:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by wayang person china one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, of course it's OK, You are just thinking about it, & not acting on it. & Provided you are not fantasizing of: (e.g. ,her sister,her mom or any of her Female family members),if it's a fantasy of a girl you will never have,(e.g.Jessica Alba, Lindsay Lohan) Then is OK, but you being a newlywed, I would hold off on telling your new wife of your fantasies until the 2 of you are in a comfortable setting ( at dinner or in bed). let me know how it turns out, good luck,buddy.
2006-10-17 21:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lorenzo A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad news.....you shouldn't have got married quite so quickly...if you are thinking of other women...but not to say yo don't love you re wife...but you shouldn't be thinking of other women so soon after you just got hitched...pray on it though...I think you have a conscience here and that is a good thing and the only thing that will help you.
2006-10-17 22:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all right to think, but never ever let your wife knows about it and you would have committed a sin if you happen to shout out the woman's name while doing it.
2006-10-17 21:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dwell on other women enough sure. But why dwell on other women when you have your wife. I can see if you just see cute chicks outside while your borded, but your with your wife in an intimate moment.
2006-10-17 21:29:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋