im devastated because the girl i thought that loved me that ive known for a year since i had my comp?

Question

doesnt really love me, and im lonely and alone and dont no how to get over it? ive been talking to her for a year and i feel built up a close online relashionship, she even said she was gonna come to england to visit me, shes from canada and i no shes only 19, but i loved her alot. she just was coming online and not speaking to me any more, like she was forced to speak. then she would say brb. and go offline and not come back on for days, i got annoyed and fed up with this behaviour so i deleted her and blocked her. i even wrote her heart felt emails telling her how i felt about her and how much she meant to me, and she would say she felt the same back, but behave in a different way? now im all torn up and missing her, shes not even tried to email me or anything, and i keep being tempted to re add her to messenger?

Answer 1

lets put it this way, you never know she is a real 19yr old girl or a 50 yr old woman? anyway its just an online friend, you can always find another one.

Answer 2

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Honey it is very hard to carry on a relationship over the internet.

I have a friend in Wales that I talk to and yes I do love him as a friend I know that but he's a thousand miles away from Detroit Michigan USA
I hate to tell you this but honey I think that she is pulling your leg!!!!!

What she is doing to you is cruel and uncalled for punishment to you. If she is only 19 i can almost guarantee that she is seeing someone else. If she is not answering any of your e-mails and turn the computer off after she tells you brb that is just cruel. I do believe that if you find a someone on the internet, that yes you can love them but you don't actually get to see the person to be sure that you are in love with each other or not. What if she when gets there you may not like each other at all. My daughter is 19 and I live 15 minutes from
Ontario, Canada bridge to get into Canada.
But honey I do believe that maybe you thought that she loves you but look at how mean she is
to you. I am from the US and it is very nice to meet you. Please don't let it bring you down because there are plenty of other girls who and honest and treat you well. She was probably just pulling your leg. Telling you everything that you wanted to hear and I am sorry that she hurt you so bad.

I know what you are talking about as for you love her...but you have never even seen h



Honey, I wouldn't do an online thing to met when is because please.
Listen to this my friends stay woud away from
him along time ago.Anywheres when she got off the phone and see him he about stomach
stpmach. She did you wrong but I won't know how. If you ever get the chance to talk or need here tp talk.anywauys he is about 290 lb
Anyways the thing I mentioned a lot today.

You can e-mail me or im me Shinningstar33160Yahoo.com I hope that this is true. I am a trusting friend and maybe more? Give me indian

Answer 3

Take a really big deep breath , and let it out. There now that you are more calm, you need to have a reality check. So turn off your computer and get out back slowly away from it, and go out side and have an adventure. Go to places were "People " are and get to know someone that you can talk to and see for real. Long distance love affairs hardly ever have a good track record. So chat with people on line, and have a relationship with a person that lives close by. Good Luck : )

Answer 4

Get another online romance or go out and meet a real girl. ATLEAST a real girl can show you her emotions and you can read from her face that she's not interested. Sounds like she is afraid to admit to you she is not interested. Which happens. She probably found a new online boytoy to make her feel good. Move on and forget about her. She is not worth stressing over. She is probably not who she says she is and is scamming every guy until they ask to meet then she moves on to next guy. The internet basically is just a haven for weirdos,old married pervs, loners, and ugly recluses. Its best to meet a real person.

Answer 5

I read a lot of confusion at the loss of control of your emotions?
Women are trained by nature to deal with this with thier periods I think. You can't hold it against her for respecting your word and/or also being turned off by your indecisiveness. I think you are just addicted to the feeling you think you have with this internet entity you dont even really know. Words are very very cheap by the way.
You should visit her face to face. Long distance relations are not impossible if you have known the person from before. But if you have never met face to face you are doing yourself a huge disservice of delusion. Seek out locals to date. A woman on the internet or foreign entity might seem so idealistic but you got to realize they are just human there too and if you were with her you might realize shes really not all you have her cooked up to be. You have to wonder why she is on the internet of all possible places as well. Perhaps there are skeletons in each your closets that are very conveniently hidden while assuming your idealic roles on the internet.
Meet a local girl. Distract your mind from this because it is a very strong sensation you have led yourself into based of false pretenses. Dont go looking for foreigners to tangle with unless you are ready to deal with them. Then expect to be used and disgarded.

Answer 6

Internet relationships like that aren't worth the heartbreak. Things like this happen. You can add her back if you want, but it's as hard for her as it is for you. She wants to end it with you without hurting your feelings, and so she can't tell you that she wants to end the relationship because she's afraid of how you'll feel.
I think you should just send her an e-mail saying that you understand if she doesn't want to continue the relationship, etc.

Answer 7

Let her go, obviously you know she really isn't worth it or ou would not have deleted her in the first place. You need to look for alternative friendships. Try to get out more, and go face to face with people.

Answer 8

i know how that is, did you know alot of those girls are actually using random guys for phcholgy class? it's odd, but true. and alot of them do it for trophy prizes, go online and see how many guys they can get to drool over them, not caring about feelings..my advice is to go to a bar or something, despite popular belief, love is hardly ever found on line.

Answer 9

Stop being a computer geek. Go out and meet a REAL girl, and learn how to spell.

Answer 10

dump her and move on if that's all she thinks of you right now..you're guilty of nothing more than loving her...she was rude and doesnt deserve a guy like you.