Ive been dating my boyfriend Rob for 3 yrs now but I hav this best guy friend that Ive had for 4. Friend=3 yrs younger & my BF is my age 22. The 1st 2 yrs me/ boyfrnd dating we saw each other alot then this past year we recieved opposite working shifts & no cars so we didn't see each other much, but still talked daily on the phone. During this time I would talk on the phone for even more hours with my "best friend" though because he would give advice where bf gives more pity/comfort Well it seem like these past 6 months I have been able to see the guy friend evryday cuz we work and go 2 school 2gether About 5 months ago I started to have feelings for my friend after all this time & he revealed he has them for me We get in stupid fights about once a week but have the best time ever My boyfriend/me have never had a fight. how do i kno i dont feel this way bcuz i see friend more? My friend's been waiting 5 months for an answer and my bf doesnt kno about this. I love them both which one?
2006-10-17 20:50:42 · 2 answers · asked by Major Max Confusion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way they both love me with all of their heart they both say I am their soulmate
2006-10-17 21:09:54 · update #1
AND I ALSO NEED ANSWERS ASAP PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS WITH YOUR BEST ADVICE EVEN IF YOU THINK IVE HEARD IT! I WANT ALL OPINIONS I CAN GET BEFORE MAKING A DECISION. I AM ALSO GOING ON A VACATION WITH MY FRIEND IN LESS THAN A MONTH AND NEED TO DECIDE!
2006-10-17 21:12:53 · update #2
Which one has to be YOUR choice...but do it quick! it's not nice to string someone along...one of them IS going to be hurt!
2006-10-17 20:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this Guy friend sounds like he cares about you.But you never know until you are in a long term relationship.You know you can never be real sure.I say just follow your heart.Relationship in life. are really hard to explain some guys think they really want someone.What I would do is see both of them and tell them both.If they can not understand that you are soul searching.Then you will know who really cares about you.You are not married so you should be able to see more than one guy without a commitment.Never jump into a commitment unless you know that This person is the one you really want to be with.What you really need to do is find someone who is soul searching also.You never know that person might be your soul mate.Either one of these two guys soul searching.That is the question you should be asking.Where are there souls.Is God number one.How can you love someone without God when God is love.
2006-10-20 03:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋