I've heard way more than once in my life,that a man should watch how a woman treats her father (kindness, respect) because theres a very good chance, he will be treated the same, and on the same note, a woman should watch how a man treats his mother?
I'm dating a lady who is usually very mean and disrespectful, no matter what you do, or what you do for her! She dosen't even get along with her family, and she hates her dad. She really dosen't get along with anyone for to long! I love her very much, and she does have some good qualities, but she always thinks everyone is against her . (out to screw her over) She acts as if she miserable most of the time and constant drama follows her! She has problems with everyone at one time or another, and she'll never admitt if she is wrong, even if there is proof staring her in the face! Everything that she downs someone else for is a exact desciption of her own actions and faults, as she'll always blame someone else! HELP!!
2006-10-17 20:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by arnnex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have heard the old saying that women should watch out for how a man treats his mother too. I myself think that, yes, you should watch how a person treats the other people in their life, especially those they are close to. If they are, in general, a disrespectful person, don't expect to be treated good by them. If they treat others with cruelty, there's a very good chance that one day they will turn on your and treat you in the same manner. You would probably be much better off without this "mean and disrespectful" woman.
2006-10-17 20:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The Best book I ever read is called THE DANCE OF ANGER
It talks about family types and the anger they dance and repeat over and over again.
It is true that we should think about how the family functions....but we also can't find a perfect family. Also some people see what their family has done wrong and change the family pattern.
Some people marry a person just like or similuar to their negative parent. For instance there might be a mellow dad and an intense mother...and the son marries an intense woman.
You have the oppertunity to just learn to live with her personality or you can avoid a future of drama and possible divorice by moving on.
From experience a person rarely loves the other person so much that the problems will improve. They just get worse actually
2006-10-18 04:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true treating mother & father counts a lot. Person's behavior can be sometimes superfecial when guest or other people are around. My point, how they treat parents count but watchout for players.
If you just need a companion or if one is desparate, then I would say learn to live with situations, rather than spending life time finding a person. I find it, being little understanding and yielding goes long way. (But don't neglect other options. Being practical is also important in relationships.)
Caution - Seems like high maintenance girl from what you describe. Hope you have strength to deal with her.
2006-10-18 03:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by CheezeL00ver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations you found a drama queen. My advice to you is run to the hills or you're never gonna get a moment's peace. It doesn't get better only worse. No piece of tang is worth that kind of aggravation.
2006-10-18 03:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your post says more about you than your lady friend. Why are you with someone so negative? You need to find out why you don't just leave and find someone nice. Until you can answer that, you will go from one angry relationship to another.
2006-10-18 04:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definitely, i've always been a wonderful lover to my father and I imagine I will be the same to my husband!
2006-10-18 03:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by isabela d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is strange on several different levels.
2006-10-18 03:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second Annie...what are you thinking?
2006-10-18 03:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by nirvana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋