I thought a girl liked me so I tried to start a conversation decently. She rudely declined to even talk. I was infact quite shoked at her response. Though it is hard to believe but I have to deal with reality.
How to deal with a NO from someone you liked. I am heart broken. I have to forget her and move on but how. How should I deal with the situation when she gets married or starts seeing some one.
Experienced guys/girls, please reply!
2006-10-17 20:27:57 · 13 answers · asked by I_wish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm surprised you even like her after she was so rude to you. You need to be realistic and see people for what they are, not what you wish them to be.
2006-10-17 20:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you don't put too much into the situation too early. If you fantasize about the person night and day for quite a while before even starting a conversation, you're bound to fall a long way if it doesnt work out. You didn't lose anything, or anything you could have gotten in the first place.
Does it matter to you what random people do? Like for example a girl you know but you're not interested in? Hell no, neither should you bother yourself with what a girl does who you're interested in but who turned you down. Basically the same thing, you did what you could and thats it. It's always better to see than to be sorry, and you did the right thing here. So you should in the future too, aint got nothing to lose. And that's the attitude you should take. Then, next time another girl does want to talk to you etc, then you can start seeing where things go and maybe develop feelings. Just dont do it too early.
2006-10-17 20:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone, no matter how or why, can leave footprints in your heart that will never vanish. Because of this it is nearly impossible to completely forget about a certain person you've had such feelings for. Moving on is the next best thing in the sense that you're truly just searching for that someone that will cover any other prints with their own. In other words, what's meant to be will be. What isn't is meant to be learned from and reflected on your choices to be made. May the best be with you soon.
2006-10-17 20:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She s not the only girl in the world there s a millions of girl just leave her alone don t have anything to do with her if you bother her you will make the situation worse so just go look for another girl it s hard but keep trying not all girl you see what to talk with you. If i think a girl like me i would ask her i would say do you like me if she say no i move on to another girl. don t think a girl likes you actually like you try to talk to her first like tell her how are u
2006-10-17 20:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih she's seem not really interested dating you...first you need to accept that she doesn't like you because if you still hope that maybe somehow she'll like you are just making some false hopes and will hurt yourself..then after that keep your eyes open maybe there's someone that will make your heart again..so don't close your heart into chances..keep your options open and there's a lot of fishes in the ocean..
So, you need to accept that she doesn't like you and then open up your heart again...
2006-10-17 20:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to like more than one girl at a time. A VARIETY of them. Instead of worrying about one girl dumbing you, you need to get the attitude that a girl should be "lucky" to have YOU! Your worth it!! Now just start believing it....It's as easy as that...Positive thinking will get you EVERYTHING you want....Good luck!!!
2006-10-17 21:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what? as a human one has to face alot rejects in our day to day life. but one should stand up wipe the dust and continue. i would advice you to engage in more activities to keep you busy so that you will have less time to think about her. and above all you should accept that she don't like you and continue with you life just as you used to do before you met her. your angle will be coming soon.
2006-10-17 21:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by anne k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorri but i recently told my ex i dont love him and NO i dont want to be with him...so i broke his heart. The only way to get over it...go shopping for a new girl...!!
2006-10-17 20:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pretty hard considering you really like the person. look for any diversion, something or better yet, someone to help you move on.
2006-10-17 20:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Saltbreaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to your friend about it, its no use keeping it all to yourself... You can't just let that ruin your life, try and hangout with your friends and forget everything... DON'T GO TO BARS AND GET YOURSELF DRUNK CUZ THAT WON'T WORK!!
2006-10-17 20:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋