I met this guy over the online game a few months ago. We start out of w/ bad beginning but now.. well.. we become more closer to each other. He is so sweet, nice and romantic. In these days as we chat, he becomes to tell me, he likes me and want to be with me. He would come online at 12am at his time just to check if i am online. And we been chatting everydays for a week. When i started to think i like him too, my problem began. I started to ask myself, what if this guy is lying to me. what if his online personality is not the same as his real personality. The biggest problem is that even if i say yes that i like him and meet him outside and become bf and gf, my parents would totally reject him coz he is 7/8 yr older than me and coz i met him online..
I fell like i am trap.. I don't know what to do.. Should i contiune with this relationship or not.. So hard to decide when he sound like such an incredible guy.
2006-10-17 20:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't start a relationship that exists only online and so on. Meet the guy and start out fresh from there if you really want to. He's good material for a friend, if the two of you have similar interests and so on, but you really shouldnt commit yourself to someone who you havent met and only communicate over with in a game or a IM or whatever. Discuss with him about the fact that you're not in a relationship, and you couldn't even start one without meeting etc if that would ever be the case. Sounds to me that you're pretty young, so you especially have no need to rush things to find a boyfriend, online or IRL. (Don't think anyone should be in a rush but still).
2006-10-17 20:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you really cant trust anyone these days especially over the internet. YOu can be anyone you wanna be online. You should really think about it before you decide to meet this person. Seems like you have doubts about it too. Trust your instincts.
2006-10-18 03:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It does not sound appropriate. I wouldn't advise anyone under 20 to see a man she has met online.
Tell him you believe he is an incredible guy and when you are old enough, you will be happy to meet him.
2006-10-18 03:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out is meet him in a public place --- get to know him and just tell everyone you met at a cafe
2006-10-18 03:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advice you to invite him in your country, meet in an open place where there alot of people, get to know his true colours before you go any farther. But never give in to his sexual desire if he request you to.
2006-10-18 03:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by anne k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out d online frend in life n then decide.
2006-10-18 03:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart is great a am sure you will find your love in him i trust your heart and should olso ask him clearly where he want to meet you good luck!!!
2006-10-18 03:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by parthteotia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋