Alright, I rented a room to this guy that I thought that I knew until one night he put a gun to my head and said "Listen b**** i'm gonna kill you.
I got away and called the police. The next thing you know the police and I don't mean just one or two I mean like fifteen police officers trying to get him out of my house.
My friend and I who's head he also put the gun
and I sat in the police car and they took us to the front gate and wouldn't let him in or out of the residence.
Anyways, he held 15 police officers at bay and it took them 45 minutes to get him to come out of the house. Needless to say that when when he came out of the house he was tackled and arrested. Now this man told me that he had been a master seargent in the Marine Corp, and had just been out for about nine months or so.
He was never in the Marine Corp. He is a habitual offender who was also Schizophrenc. He had been off of his meds and was drinking too that night anyways forty five minutes later they
2006-10-17 20:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Alright here is the thing. He gets out of jail on November 22 and I am scared to death that he is going to come after me so I have a PPO but I stil can't sleep.
I asked his mother at the time what she wanted me to do with his stuff. She said that she didn't care because she didn't have anyplace to put it in her place.
His brother said that he would take the stuff and keep it at his house. Well I don't know what happened but his brother got evicted from his place and left pretty much everything there except his clothes. Anyways this guy has told a mutual friend that as soon as he gets out he is going fishing with his fishing pole and tackle boxes that were left at my house. I have none of his stuff and he is coming after me but wasn't keeping it after he put a gun to my head. He will get out next month and will be looking for his stuff that I gave his family to keep for him. I have since moved to another place but I know he will be here what should I do?
2006-10-17 20:14:10 · update #1
Remember when answering the question that I never knew that he was a habitual criminal or schizophrenic and off his meds. Had I have known about those things and that he had lied to me I never would have rented him a room. His parents lived right around the corner and never even told me that he was mentallty ill until the day after this happened.
2006-10-17 21:17:55 · update #2
Well, do you have family or friends you can stay with? Does he know where you live now? Talk to you neighbors and let them know that he is not allowed around your house, and that you have an order of protection. Tell them that if they see him, or see anything out of the ordinary to call the police. Make several copies of your order of protection, one to carry with you, and leave one places you go a lot, for example, your parents home or work. I don't know where you live, but can you talk to a police officer and let him know of your concerns? They can usually tell you where to go or what to do. Another great source of information is a Domestic Violence Shelter or hotline. I wish you the best of luck, and will keep you in my prayers!!
2006-10-17 21:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lori S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, maybe you could stay with someone else for a while after he gets out until you get a better feel for what else he might do. Also, try to get some counseling... it may help you work through some of the trauma of what hapened. If you can arrange a place to stay before he gets out, maybe you'll be able to sleep better knowing that you'll be safer when the time arises.
If you have the money, you might try getting a security system, although those can be very expensive.
Good luck. I really hope things work out.
2006-10-17 21:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your PPO (personal protection order) renewed and steer clear of this jerk. With the PPO, if he comes anywhere close to you or threatens you in any way -- mail, phone, in person, by email -- then call the cops. You didn't say how long he was in jail for, but if it was longer than about 30 days -- I don't think you'd be responsible for his stuff especially since you tried to get his family to store it for him and they refused for various reasons. Get a new PPO, and use it.
2006-10-17 21:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an awful thing to have happened to you. I am so sorry.
If you don't mind medication, try to get something from a doctor to sleep; this can just be temporary.
I hope you are not suffering from Post Traumatic Stress. If so, you will need to see someone to work through it.
This part is weird, but a friend who is a massage therapist says it needs to be done. Purify the house with sage. You don't want his evilness lingering in your house. I don't know if this works, but it is worth a try.
The best of luck to you. I am so happy you are safe now.
2006-10-17 20:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think he knows where you live MOVE. don't tell anyone where. Change jobs. Get a dog.
Now what I would do is some magic to keep him away. If you believe it will work. Take 4 small basket's and put broken mirrors in them. Put one at each corner of your home. This sends evil away.
2006-10-17 21:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tedi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what Patti said. Then, when and IF he comes to you, tell him the truth -- you gave his stuff to his family and they have it. If you don't know where they are, tell him so. If he starts hassling you, call the cops and get a restraining order. Best I can do and I wish you well.
2006-10-17 20:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you need to stop letting ex cons stay in your house.
Now, you may consider getting your own gun! If the guy comes back, don't let him in and call the cops. Just always sleep with the phone near by. But please think about the situations you put yourself in. You may be bi-polar, but not stupid.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 21:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you get the local battered womens shelter to hook you up with a group or a counselor to ease your mind so you can finally get some sleep?
2006-10-17 20:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ppo is worthless get a gun and a concealed carry permit
2006-10-17 23:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get restraining order on this guy and tell the police that you gave his clothes to his brother and ask them to tell him.
2006-10-17 21:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋