I fall in love with my cousin by accident, and when i knew what happened i tried to refrian, but she rejected that we have to continue, what bother me much is that she want to continue sexual relation with me, she told me that she would like it much. Can you people help me what to do?
2006-10-17 20:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's not your 1st cousin, legally your OK. If she is your first cousin, then that's gross. Its like your sister.
2006-10-17 20:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Amish people are rooted imbreds that's why they look the same (no I actually learnt about their history-not being funny), and Princess Diana was the first non-related by blood woman to step into that cycle (that's why her sons turned out good looking) so there are things that happen in life. I don't think you should continue a sexual relationship nor an emotional one for that matter. There ARE people in America who marry cousins and have no problem with it. It's up to you. But I wouldn't.
2006-10-18 03:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to say, but sex is no excuse to ignore that fact you're related. It doesn't how much you may feel for each other or how much you may enjoy the sex; the scenario of this being with a first cousin is not only illegal but can cause more problems than you realize. Take for instance getting pregnant and not only having your family deal with it, but a child born with possible defects. You have to ask yourself and her the following question: Is an orgasm worth ruining your lives and creating another to suffer a fate you have falsely created for him/her?
2006-10-18 03:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Haha that reminds me of silly story. I used to chat a lot in chat rooms ect..and this guy and I started talking and I really liked him, he seemed cool. A few weeks later, I asked him where he was originally from and he told me. Turned out my mom grew up in the same area. He asked what her maiden name was and I told him. Next thing I know, he asked me if my grandma was Sara. I totally freaked out cuz I thought I was being stalked. He told me to calm down and told me who he was. I phoned my mom and franticly asked her if I had a cousin Colin and she told me he was my 2nd cousin. Talk about a small world. It was really weird when we decided to meet and hang out because I thought he was really cool and really wanted to meet him (before I knew he was my cousin). But my point is, once I found out I totally switched gears to liking him as a friend. And you should do the same too. Nothing good can come from hooking up with your cousin, unless your looking to go on the Jerry Springer Show.
2006-10-18 03:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh man this is some deep ****, u already cross boundries to being sexual with her so now u have to deal for the rest of ur life that u and ur cousin have had sex, man i know this is hard but u should let her go ur gonna make ur family mad and cause a bigger deal, one of my cousin has ask me to have sex with him, ever since i was little he always wanted me to touch him i always said no, now we are older and he does not say anything to me but he gives me dirty looks all the time. but i have always known not to cross sexual paths with him, but since u already had sex with her try not to feel too bad about it people make mistakes just know what ur are doing and consequnces.
2006-10-18 03:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
whoa whoa boss, you don know .. cousins make dozens.lol.
Listen .. I give you a big clap clap for your boldness.
Now lets' get down to it .. to be honest .. I too into my cousin, hey since you brought it up. I mean I like her though, and she really turns me on. I mean, turn me on more than porn. She get next to me, and I up in a sec. No porn had me up that quick.lol.
But listen .. just use a condom, because sex is feel good, and to me, it don't matter who it from, just as long is it's a female, and she enjoys it.
2006-10-18 03:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by hhgdgdfg 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why did u fall in love with her in the first place that is soooo gross if she is ur first cousin but if she is not than that is alrite but if she is ur first cousin ur should stop wats going on with u two fast. in less u want it be incest then continue with ur sexual relationship
2006-10-18 03:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by ashlea 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
UGGGGHHHH! Damn, people like you actually exist? I hope this is some kind of a joke, if not get help and by help I mean a shrink not some relatives for a threesome.
2006-10-18 03:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
this is total incest most people would try to get out of this kind of thing becouse its just plain wrong but since its your life you have to make the choice if you want to keep dating or not. for me i would dump her becouse daiting your cousin is gross but do what you need to do. hoped this helps
2006-10-18 03:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stop it. she doesn't love you... she just want you... get it? Love is different from Want. only you can stop her from doing such thing. resist her... and make her realize that you're cousins and that you can't pursue any relationship more than that.
2006-10-18 03:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋