Let's say I'm on a date - - -
How would I know if the guy was interested in me? Or if he wanted to kiss me?
I haven't been on the dating thing in a while.. Just got out of a 3 year relationship about 6+ months ago.. So any tips would be NICE!
2006-10-17 20:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-If he decides to hold your hand out of the blue.
-He isn't afraid to look into your eyes while talking and even brightly smiles while doing so.
-He is or seems interested and intently listening to everything you say. (note: leaning over table at restaurant to assure he hears your words clearly)
-He tells you of good memories he has that you remind him of. (note: not of girls but all other things such as summer)
-He seems to know how to say all the right things at exactly the right time. This is not a coincedence, if you feel a guy is trying to be verbally perfect and extremely careful about every little thing he says, he's more worried about what you think he'll say then do. This is a good thing because it means he's thinking with his heart in care of seeing you again, regardless of any sexual gravitation.
-He is nervously fiddling with an object yet maintains precise verbal skill and eye contact. (ex : phone, pen, etc.)
These really are just a few things, but it's more than enough to get you started into being close to reading a guy's mind. Remember that not all guys are the same and some will do different things than others to cue your reaction. Whatever it be, what really matters in the end is if you find yourself comfortable with them in the situation of their actions and words. Basically, if you believe them when they tell you you're beautiful, they aren't lying in the sense that they are interested. Best of luck be to you.
2006-10-17 20:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As I'm sure you haven't noticed,women who have a young one running screaming through the house and are pregnant/just gave birth are NOT the most sexually radiant creatures on the planet. A kid in the Terrible Two's makes a Mom enough of a mess,add in the spit up,poop and other fluids a newborn deposits on you and any sex starved man will turn you down. Not to mention that a home with TWO crumb crunchers that small in it is not exactly The Ritz when it comes to ambiance for romance,correct? Let's ask ourselves another question. Has the man in question been shoved to the back of the bus in his own home? Are you one of those "MY baby" women? Are you looking like a train dragged you through town when he gets home? Has your bed turned into a de facto crib? Those things don't say "Come take me,Big Boy" to him. If you want romance and/or sex from the guy you've gotta give him a woman he'd want to f*ck and a place to do it in. Honey,he just wants a piece of @ss where there is some peace and quiet. I'm NOT saying what he did was right,but I CAN see why he did it. Look,I've given my husband four boys. Did I always lool like The Breath of Spring when he walked through the door? Hell no. But 5 out of the 7 days of the week I cleaned up and looked my best for him. Kids in our bed? Never,not once. That's where Mommy reminds Daddy why Daddy married Mommy in the first place. A department you seem to have been slacking off in. Happy dogs don't leave the yard,Dear. Oh sure,if anyone understands how much work it is to raise kids it's me. Hard work,no rest,yada,yada,yada. And? We knew what the job entailed when we signed up for it,no one held a gun to our heads and made us get pregnant,did they? Of course not. But one thought that NEVER left my mind was that I damn well better take care of the guy who was here BEFORE all those kids or he might not be here by the time they all grew up and left the house. You may wish to do the same.
2016-05-21 22:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as kissing. Here's the best advice I can give.
If you reach out to kiss him he won't hold back. Guys never hold back on a kiss if they had asked you out.
Also to know if he's interested? Did he ask you out? Cause if he did then it really doesn't matter what kind of person you are. For him to ask you out means he's probably somewhat close to you as a person already.
2006-10-17 20:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you will know if there is chemistry then sparks WILL fly and you will not have the time of day to ask the question whether or not he wants a kiss. He will want all of you and there will be no time to ask that question. YOU GO GIRL!!
2006-10-17 20:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by cwgrluprn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do one thing let him decide what to do next if he want to kiss you he will describe and if you feel like to do this then you can. this is just a kiss nothing els don't take it seriously
2006-10-17 20:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs....so if we look at / talk to / grunt or otherwise get your attention than we are interested.....and we want to kiss you and will do / say whatever it takes to kiss you and more (if you let us !!!) !!!
2006-10-17 20:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please let me know -- have not dated for 30+ years
so im at the stage where i say what i want or rather ask :)
2006-10-17 20:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um....guys are usually pretty striaght foward u should know when hes into you. and if its not obvious give it some time it will become obvious =)
2006-10-17 20:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kyrosec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll let you know as soon as we know you are into us. Easy.
2006-10-17 20:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOLLOW THE DROOL, GIRLFRIEND..... JUST FOLLOW THE DROOL AND WHEN IT ENDS UP AT HIS MOUTH THEN IT'S MEANT FOR YOU!!!!!! LOL
2006-10-17 20:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by GOT MILK? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋