me and my friend were at the mall and guys always flirt with the both of us and we almost look like twins and the only thing that separate our features is the complextion of our skin color.I asked some guys tell me the truth about the matter and they said that it's because you are black, but the both of us are black, it's just i'm real dark.I would not change my complextion for the world i love it but what's the deal?
2006-10-17 19:54:03 · 14 answers · asked by aquila w 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
racial bias.
2006-10-17 20:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think FAKE darker skin is ugly....Fake dark skin is very unnatractive to me....It is damaged skin, cooked damaged skin that looks like a wallet and ages people faster.
I like natural pale skin, natural tan skin, and natural dark skin, I really do. I am nowhere near the whole "natural is ALWAYS beautiful," but I think naturally dark skin is beautiful, and I have very fair skin...
Like I said, I am very pale, because of 3 things, I was born that way, I like it, and I can get skin cancer from the sun VERY easily.. When going out, I put on sunblock on every 15-30 minutes. It is nowhere near a curve to do this. My tattoos stay bright, my skin stays the shade I like it (usually.... :-(....) and I don't damage my skin... All of my life, I was made fun of, "casper", "Ghost" "dead girl", "pasty"....etc was all I hear...especially when I tried wearing dresses, because you could tell more how pale I was, and when my family dragged me to the pool...it was stupid how much crap I got.......I love my alabaster complexioin.... I wouldn't change it either, I think I get what you mean!
Like I always say on here, people are different, and everyone likes/dislikes stuff, it's just their personal prefrences...
And then, some people just suck..
2006-10-17 20:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Yeop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mostly I think it is their own insecurities that make anyone criticise others whether it is about skin color, religion, sexual preference, ethnicity, size, age, whatever. I just feel sorry for someone that has to get their kicks from that kind of behavior.
Poor baby, I say to myself, you must have had a very bad life so far to criticize me for the way I look. Especially since you are not any more beautiful than anyone else.
2006-10-17 20:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by SympatheticEar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell the true its nothing wrong with black. it just because light skinned people think it look better and most people like that. but am dark skinned and i catch i of dark brown women instead of light skined. because they saw light skined females like dark skined males but that not true. and they saw dark is in but really light skinned is still in. i had a friend he was real ugly but he was light skined he got all the more girls then i did and thats to me is crazy
2006-10-17 20:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by tyrone r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh Darn I wonder why Donald didn't invest in some plastic surgery! Eek! Actually I have to agree with Equal Jay-Z really isn't all that bad looking. But, who cares Beyonce is "Happy"....I guess!
2016-03-28 14:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to those stupid boys- if they're black and say that...they are ashamed to be black...if their not...then their just plain stupid lol- that's sooo dumb it's b/c you're black? are they not black....if they are..they would accept every shade from the fairest of the fair...to the darkest of the dark...I am dark myself...one guy was like...when the lights were dim in the class...you're midnight...I looked at him O.O I expected that from the philipino boy that keeps making those kind of comments....this guy is black...not only is he black..he is dark skinned..only a few shades lighter...I'm thinking this guy is an idiot...o.o it's like YOU'RE BLACK relax lol... I have a best friend that is waaaaaaaayyy lighter than me and alot of guys like her more...b/c she is light-I'm not assuming they actually admit to it...the guys in my area say the dark-skinned girls are rude so they don't want to talk to us... ??? But I still get approached -- it's so retarded...but hey... just laugh it off...b/c there are some smart guys in this world- that don't choose who they like by complexion
2006-10-18 14:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by 1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I think u shouldn't listen or think that dark skinned people are ugly, am from Africa and here we have all shades of black which I think is beautiful.. but no shade is more beautiful than the other..
U r beautiful no matter what ur skin shade is...., u should learn to be comfortable in the skin u r in...
2006-10-17 20:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they are ignorant and shallow. Stop flirting with immature losers and find a man who sees all your beauty, inside and out.
2006-10-17 20:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by adrianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! dark skin guys remind me of chocolate...mmmmm....
Ur so lucky to hav dark skin, dont get discouraged! U can wear so many more colors in clothes and makeup....liv it up!
Ppl are just jealous babe!
2006-10-17 20:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sal 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The deal is that poorly educated people can't accept differences.... They only appreciate what is familiar to them, what they already kow, what they are used to....
Black is as beautiful as white or anything else...
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise....
2006-10-17 20:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
...for the same reasons why some dark skinned people insist that light skinned people are ugly!!!
2006-10-17 19:57:16 · answer #11 · answered by Fatherla 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋