Why do we say this why is it better to have loved and lost and why must the ones we love we lose. Life semms to be an unfair circle on torment but yet we still find time and affection for those we love
2006-10-17 19:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Of course the best is to have loved and NOT lost. But IF you are alone, it's better you have had some love in the past, than never to have loved, because you were too afraid. That's what this saying is about. And I definitely agree.
2006-10-17 19:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have never experienced the joy of loving then you are missing out. Loving is an essential part of life, and losing is too. It's ok to be hurt, but it's always good to be loved. It's a hard concept, but you never really know what you're missing...and when it's gone...at least you live with the most wonderful memories you could ever imagine.
2006-10-18 02:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ignorance is bliss, huh? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's better that way because u experienced to love and be loved.. and u know how this world works.. when u lost the love, it means the best is yet to come.. and if the right time comes, what u have experienced from the past relationship, will be the guide for the new one and from there, u can be able to build a strong relationship..
2006-10-18 02:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by ok 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We know pretty well that we live and finally we die. So why should we live a long life and die. instead we will end our life in early stages?
It is all god created circles. Love, hate, good ,bad what not every thing its a part of life. Those who do not have all these feelings or those who are not interested these feelings you may find them in a mental hospital
2006-10-18 02:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by nagarjunababu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its better to have never loved at all because the feeling of being in love is very addictive. We spend the rest of our lives trying to achieve the same high as we did when we fell in love for the first time, almost like a crackhead.
2006-10-18 02:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by goodintentions82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every experience is a added tool of wisdom for ur life to make you better in every area or the next situation.
Shalom
2006-10-18 02:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pashur 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the highs are worth the lows. to know love and to know pain is to be alive, and beats the alternative of sleepwalking through life.
2006-10-18 03:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by answer faerie, V.T., A. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who have never loved are worse off. They tend to hate. Sadness is torture, but hate is even worse. Sadness creates compassion. Hate alwayes creates pain.
2006-10-18 02:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most that love once... will love again.... and hurt for it... desire it... no matter how much fear, they actually really want love again.
As I said once upon a time.... If you haven't head it, you don't miss it. You just for some reason want it.
2006-10-18 02:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to know love at leasty once even if you lose that one I hope you find a love for life
2006-10-18 02:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋