the guy i been with just broke up with me, i was in love with him never wanted anything else but him. he was the right one for me always been there for me when i was in need and when he broke up with me he just said i dont want to be with you and didnt tell me why and what the reason was what should i do?
2006-10-17 19:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by oh yeah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. It's his loss not yours, his problem not yours. He obvoiusly doesn't know what a good thing he had with you, and he's dumb to have let you go, and if he's that dumb to have let you go, then he's not the right one for you, because the right guy would want to keep you forever no matter what the circumstances. If you hound him about it, it's gonna be harder on you, keeping you from moving on and you'll make an @ss out of yourself, which you will reagretably reflect upon later. I have done some stupid things about my ex's breaking up with me years ago that I now think about sometimes and say to myself "what a doofus!" Good Luck, happier days are ahead, I hope I helped!!
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2006-10-17 19:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, then you can't force him to come back to you. I've had my heart broke before, and I know how much it hurts. Unfotunately, the only thing to make you feel better will be time. In the meantime, you can help cheer yourself up by focusing on just yourself for a while. Do what makes you happy. If you happen to have some extra money, go ahead and splurge on something you rarely treat yourself to. You also might wanna look into picking up a new hobby, something that will keep you occupied and help take your mind off things for a while. Keeping a journal and writing down your feelings every day may also help in lightening the load on your heart.
2006-10-18 02:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have followed your heart and it always leads to him, you can't give up. There is always a reason as to why someone would "just not want to be with you", no matter what it is, there is something there and the surface must be scratched. Try to talk to him, ask him what is wrong with him or you that he hasn't shared with you. It could be as simple as not kissing enough or as complex as unknown feeling of inadequacy. Whatever the reason, you must first approach him in the way that he feels is more important to find out and solve than anything. If you love him that much, it is that crucial to know and work with. I wish you luck and I assure you that everything will work out the way it should. But please trust me when I say that no one can snap their fingers and expect to move on, so the path must be traveled just a bit further to prove a dead end exists.
2006-10-18 02:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on show him that it did not hurt you and show him that you really did not need him, but the whole time still want him so that way he will know what he lost, in other words kinda move on but don't just make him think that.. Should work :)
2006-10-18 02:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by ashley c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was always there for you? have you had a troubled life, full of up and downs? was he your knight in shining armour? if so, it sounds like you may have dumped all your problems onto him. he may have loved you, but he just couldnt take it anymore. he felt as though he was only there to pick up the peices of you. as a result you may have neglected him and his feeling. stuff that he might have been goin through. just a thought thtough
2006-10-18 02:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding on to a deteriorating love affair is like holding your fist tighter till your knuckles turn white. Letting go is like opening your palm, it feels better but is empty.
Let him go...
2006-10-18 02:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by maimai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont deserve him stop wasting time on him, move on and find someone who knows how to love you the way you deserve
2006-10-18 02:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you treated him right first of all, then ask yourself if he ever loved you. Then decide if its worth talking to him about it its worth your effort to be with him.
2006-10-18 02:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Aztlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probvably scared of something, or there is someone else.
2006-10-18 02:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Read n' Write 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him quickly - obviously he "he was NOT the right one"
2006-10-18 02:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by dont try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋