Is there ever a right time? They get freaked out either way.. If you give them a heads up, or if you let them get to know you. Either way, their perception of you is changed.. Maybe you should never tell anyone, so you're not slapped with a label.
2006-10-17 18:49:01 · 16 answers · asked by geminicatlver 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Though there never is really a right time...let the person get to know you. Without knowing that you have bi-polar. Once they really get to know you and they already accept you. Tell them. If they really care about you, it shouldn't matter to them at all because they already know who you are and that doesn't change it.
2006-10-17 18:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably best to let someone know up-front, especially if you think there is a chance the relationship could develop into something further. Yes, people's perception changes but it changes with each passing day. After a first fight the perception will be changed.
If I was in a new relationship and the woman was bipolar and knew she was I'd admire the courage it took to let me know about it! BPD is a disease as real as any other medical illness. Anyone worth having would understand that and if they cared about you, would still want to be with you. Just be honest and give them the information they need to decide how they want their life affected by it.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 19:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First date if you never want to see them again. Just before you get married if you're a complete asshat. Somewhere in between the two works for most people, but you'll have to judge when. The how is maybe more important than the when.
Are you on meds? Are they working?
2006-10-18 02:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Random Bloke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are bipolar illness signs and indicators. It incorporates melancholy, severe impulsiveness, temper swings and euphoria. Bipolar illness is a intense psychological ailment. that's no longer curable yet might properly be dealt with.
2016-10-02 10:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into the "relationship level" after about 4 dates.
You need to share this.. this disorder is a genetic one, so that will effect the children you plan to have with your future mate.
My brother is Bi Polar and thank God we found out and we can help him be the best man possible.
2006-10-17 18:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bipolar if u get to know someone well they will notice u change
the best thing to do is pull up bipolar on ur computer and let them
read about it thats what i did whith my daughter so she would understand some people will never understand if they dont stay away from them because they wont understand when u have a manic episode wish u luck
2006-10-17 19:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by purple_puma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about someone, you should tell them. Generally wait a week or two and get to know them, and then tell them. It's not something to be embarassed or ashamed of- it's who you are. If they freak out, they're not a very good person anyway.
2006-10-17 19:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them get to know you for awhile first. If they notice different behavior and ask about it, tell them. If they can't deal with it, after knowing you for awhile, you are better off learning that early. Otherwise , when you both begin trusting each other with other very personal matters, it will be time.
Good Luck
2006-10-17 18:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by bob h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you both are really serious about the relationship. Or watch a movie that deals with people who have bipolor. That's a good way to open up conversation about it
2006-10-17 18:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by pregowith1stbabyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up front, right away -- so that they are able to make an INFORMED decision about forming a relationship with someone with Mental Health Problems.
2006-10-17 19:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋