going on and i didnt see it,i hope he stays on jails for yrs to come,i just dont know what to do ,with me having these feelings how am i to hellp her....she is in intense counseling....daily....i just need to know how i myself get out of this, the lies are constant with her...and her friends come to me,they think its sick....she has been in counselling for 3 yrs already.....
2006-10-17 18:22:05 · 7 answers · asked by J T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Maybe it's time for a little tough love. Stop covering for her. Make her take some of the consequences for her actions.
Also, ask her if she was sexually assaulted as a child, usually when they start that young there is an underlying reason. She seems like an angry individual. I'm serious about her getting you in trouble. Watch your step, you said she's a liar.
2006-10-17 18:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something isn't working. How are you acting towards this girl? do you bring men home? How stable is her home life? What has she been through? What are the rules in this house? You need to look at all these things because this isn't normal behavior. Do you go to counseling with her? Have you talked together. There is something deeply troubling her...maybe she doesn't get enough attention from you. I'm not sure what the problem could be....but you just need to stay strong. Kids follow by example and i know that's true. You need to stick to what you know is right no matter how hard she fights. All teens lie & sneak out, but she needs to know that if she screws up big time she's gonna have to answer to you...and thats a feeling i had from my mom growing up. And it was a scary thing!! You need to know that wherever she goes you will know, whoever she is with your gonna know who they are. It will be hard, and it will take time. But the less she is able to get away with the less she's gonna try. But it has to be constant.
2006-10-17 18:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by MTE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers to your previous question blow my mind. A 15-year old is a CHILD!
She didn't "do" anything. Maybe she acted like or told her friends she was willing so she'd feel like she had some sort of control over her life. Maybe the reason she's lied and said all these things the last few years is because that's what molested children DO, they act out.
Don't dare blame your child in any way for what was done to her. Whatever she's said to "friends" (Yeah, they sure sound like friends) is immaterial. Your first concern needs to be her. Go to counseling yourself to get things worked out for you.
2006-10-17 18:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cracea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't the slightest idea what you're talking about. Who is "she" and why is she in counseling and why do you care? What does your boy friend have to do with any of this?
It would really help if you would calm down, get your thoughts together, and write coherent sentences so people could actually talk to you about what is going on.
2006-10-17 18:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that is really heavy! I truly feel for you and will keep you in my prayers! The best advice I can give you is to drop on your knees and ask God for the strength to get you through this. He knows your hurt and he is the only one who can truly heal and comfort your wounded spirit...We are here for you...Stay strong and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
2006-10-17 18:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lyssa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Just tell Her like it is, and see what happen from there....Some people hate to hear the truth!!! now you are in a prosition too tell what's on your mine.....
2006-10-17 18:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Gary... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there ain't no tellin how many other OLDE men there has been with that girl
2006-10-18 00:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by arief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋