Would it upset you, if you found out that your birthmother was promised an open adoption, your adopted parents divorced 6 months after you were adopted, cut the birthmother out completely along with a half-brother and the birthmother had sent you gifts, cards and tried to call only to have everything sent back, thrown away and have the cops called on her for harrassment?
How would you deal with that, would it matter if you knew she always loved you, wanted to be there for you, but was just too poor (at the time) to give you what she thought you deserved but still wanted to be a part of your life and know you were okay until the day you could meet?
My husband is adopted and we are dealing with a lot of stuff right now. ANY input would be awesome.
2006-10-17 18:10:34 · 1 answers · asked by katesfive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sounds to me like your husbands birth mum has experienced extreme injustice.
imho the relationship should be resumed asap.
2006-10-17 23:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋