is it such a big deal??

Question

Well my boyfriend works at this place where he met a few girls. Its just a seasonal job but im really starting to worry. He told me what one of the girls have done, like she kissed her hand and put it to his cheek and hugs him all flirtatiously and stuff...and this is what my boyfriends telling me. Well Im starting to wonder if i should worry or not. Like I trust himm soo much, or I thought I did. He told me they dont mean anything to him and he gets really emotional when he professes how he feels towards me. So thats what really makes me believe him....Well I know his password to his email and I know I shouldnt of, but i went on and looked at his mail.. He told me before that this one girl was attractive and stuff which is fine because you know, your not just going to thikn everyone else is ugly when your in a relationship. But I think what he told his friend was way tooo far...I mean, he gets upset if I mention my guy friends in any way. Well he told his friend that he thinks that one girl is hot, and that hes jealous of his friend because the two "hot" girls were messing with the friend because he had fallen asleep. So they took pictures all being flirty to him and stuff....well my bf said "dude im soo jealous, i wonder what they would have done to me if i were the one asleep?" UMMM....should i be kinda pissed. I mean i am upset about that. I want to let him know somehow but i wasnt suppose to be lookin at the mail any one know of a way to approach this and do i have a reason to be upset or am i making a big deal out of nothing?

Answer 1

Yeah......Huge deal of nothing........If/When he cheats, then make a big deal......Dump him. Until then, try and be normal.

Answer 2

Definitly let him know you feel uncomfortable. Especially when he tells you all these girls flirt with him. I dont think you should have read his email. i just went through the same thing with my man, he constantly told me about all these girls liking him and i looked through his email and found stuff that hurt me. Thats why i think you should have left the email alone. It seems to hurt more when you find stuff out like that...ya know. But just talk to him. if he notices someone has gone through his email, let him know that you were curious, and that him always talking bout these girls makes you feel bad. I always felt my bf was letting me know other girls want him and he could get them if he wanted. Which made me feel like s***. Ya know, Let him know you trust him you are just worried they might try something. I always feel like a parent saying this, but its not him i dont trust its the girls..LOL Its weird but true. It will all be fine. Just tell him you dont like it and explain why. Good luck and hang in there!!!!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

That's what you get for looking. Ignorance can be bliss. If he tells you that girls flirt with him, do you really think he's going to hook up with one of them? I mean you know where they work...Why not look at it like this: be flattered that other girls find him attractive and yet he comes home to you.

Answer 5

UMM ya