as some of you may know, my girlfriend and I broke up last thursday.. we had been together for 2 years but it was more like 22 years becasue we were together ALL the time...EVERY day we saw each other and we would see each other inbetween work breaks or class breaks and whatever we could....my friends and family have helped greatly with this, but sometimes when i am alone, i still get upset about this..and i don't want to be...i recently found out she cheated on me so why am i stll upset over her, i can find someone who will love me sooo much and appreciate me soo much more...
2006-10-17 18:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time, my boyfriend and I broke up three months ago, and I still miss him like crazy. When you break up with someone as close as you were you go through with-drawls for a while. It'll get better. Stop thinking so much about her, and focus on you. what makes you happy. Figure out who you are without her. It'll get better.
2006-10-17 18:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by tinydancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were together two years, it may take that long or even twice that long to get over it. Give yourself time to heal. Don't rush into any new relationships. Have a lot of girl friends that you can talk to, not girlfriends that you're looking for romance with. Hang out with your guy friends. Realize that there are a lot of people who care about you exactly the way you are. It's a real shame this girl didn't appreciate you, but it is her loss.
Just give yourself time......time, the great healer.
2006-10-18 01:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by dreamweaver.629ok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stated you guys were together all the time for about 2 years so naturally she has become an intricate piece of your life. Of course I'm sure you valued having this person in your life if the relationship lasted that long and so your probably feeling a bit of a void without her there to fill it. No worries though, let time take it's toll I'm sure you will eventually find who you are looking for to fill that void.
2006-10-18 01:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to see you get through this because I'm going the same way like you did (my broken relationship reason was different) eventually you will be back your own way, but the hurt still deeply remain in your mind...make yourself believe in a better future that there is someone who greatly appreciates your love and will love you like the way you love her...I'm saying this because I'm trying to put myself in that function so I won't fall apart from my broken heart...
2006-10-18 01:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by betty n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a while, but you need to fill your life with other stuff. It's hard to be disappointed so much by someone, but you really need to see that you are better off without her. She obviously did not appreciate you - you sound like a nice dude.
2006-10-18 01:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take 17 days, 2 hours and 32 minutes....Got ya! Its not the end of the owrld dude. It'll get better and better, try and keep your mind occupied. Read, watch tv, work extra hours anything, keep busy and beofre you know it things will start adjusting without her. hang in there, it WILL get better.....
2006-10-18 01:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to admitt you failed at something or that you where being cheated on and didnt know......... maybe its not her that you want back but your own self esteeme ....... consider why you cant forget after all you have done.. most of us when given the chance to think realize that what we want isnt the person but the ideal of what could have been ......... it wasnt so let it go and go find someone else to reach your ideal with
2006-10-18 01:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of other hoes out there. Don't just settle for one.
2006-10-18 01:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by whatever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to your text
NEVER
u will die a sad & lonely person
2006-10-18 01:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until you die.
2006-10-18 01:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋