i didnt mean to.we were at lunch and she took a big bit of the burger tht i was eating so i got mad and i called her a fatas* . tht made her cry (idk why she's 5'9 and like 105-110 lbs)
what can i do to make it up to her?
2006-10-17 17:59:00 · 35 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you bada**! we women are sensitive with weight issues, so don't make the same mistake twice.
2006-10-17 18:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Saltbreaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things you should never make fun of, crack jokes at, or ask a woman.... of any age or size is 1. her age and 2. her weight.
You should come up with some creative way to say I m sorry, flowers after the fact just doesnt cut it. Make her lunch and serve it to her in a different way or buy her a sweet gift that not many people would think of... you can do it if you are sincere. I had a guy stand me up for dinner because he had an emergency at work. He ended up bringing me mcdonalds (only thing open) with a table and two chairs in the back of his truck. We sat in my driveway, with a tablecloth and a vase fulll of "flowers aka weeds) by the light of the dome light eating mcdonalds. I know it sounds corny but his heart was in the right place, and I will never forget it.
2006-10-17 18:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by blondeokie73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, never call a girl a fat *** no matter how thin or thick she is. Who cares if she took a big bite out of ur burger! C'mon... you can get another one if you really needed to. The only way you MIGHT be able to make it up to her is bye getting her flowers and saying a deep sincere sorry. If she doesn't forgive you, then i don't blame her. That was pretty F*cked up... Be carefull with what you say. Some girls could become anorexic over a comment like that. Besides, put yourself in her place, how would u feel if somebody who supposivly cares about you calls u a fat as* ?? Well, good luck with that
2006-10-17 18:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never ever comment on a girls weight...at least you learned this lesson early. With Sweetest day coming up you need to bring flowers to school and let her know you only said that in anger...and think she is beautiful. Even bring her a burger to lunch with a card attached that says 'sorry'
2006-10-17 18:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was about the dumbest thing you could do.......do you care about her at all?? What you said was abusive and moronic, and I'd say you have alot of growing up to do. You need to learn from
this self made mistake.........you can never make it up to her! Girls and women have issues about their weight all the time, even to the point of being anorexic and bulimic; we are all supposed to look like a stick to be attractive and beautiful......well that's a crock of crap!!
You, young man, don't deserve a second chance. For her sake, I hope she dumps you, and you learn a painful lesson from this travesty you created!
2006-10-17 18:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend (now fiance) did the same thing, and I'm not fat either, but I cried just like your girlfriend did. It's normal for her to cry about this. Women are very fragile when it comes to their looks. Let her know that you didn't mean it literally, and you say it to your friends so it came out so loosely. I forgave my fiance when he explained it. Let her know it's no big deal. Tell her you even asked for advice on Yahoo Answers...that's how much you care!
Good luck. You're a great guy just being a guy and didn't realize it'd upset her. Totally understandable. Don't lose sleep over it. Now it's her turn to get over it.
2006-10-17 18:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy, why in the world would you say that to someone you like? It was extremely rude, and in a way shows that you dont really respect her.
What can you do to apologize? you could start by sending her a dozen red roses, followed by you asking for her forgiveness for being such an idiot.
2006-10-17 18:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never call a girl fat...we all have enough issues about our size/weight because of the standards that the media puts on us. That being said, you definitely need to apologize and tell her that you were just kidding...that you don't think she is fat....that you think she is perfect, etc, etc....
Make sure you never do it again!
2006-10-17 18:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a nice gift. You were very rude to her and you should be sorry for it. Get her a nice gift with a "I'm sorry" card and when you give it to her..say that your'e sorry and that you were completely wrong...that's she's the most beautiful girl that you've ever known.
2006-10-17 18:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! You gotta lot of damage to fix. Maybe when you are 19, you will be able to handle these kinda things! YOU NEVER CALL EVEN THE FATEST PEOPLE FAT gf or not!!! Manners my child, manners!
Oh and when she has to go to therapy for Bulimia and Anorexia, maybe you can take her and pick her up!!!!!
2006-10-17 18:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the worst thing that you can do to a female besides cheating on her its going to really taking some sucking up to get her to forgive you but she will.
2006-10-17 18:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋