Maybe a girl could give me help on this one, or guys too. I asked a girl out and she said no. But she said that she really liked me and just isn't into dating. I'm 20 and she is 19 years old. We talked for more than 3 hours about this, as I confessed my feelings for her. We had a great conversation and were really good friends beforehand. She does not like any other guys or have any other relationships hanging in the air. I know her and can trust what she has said to know this to be true. What is she feeling? Any comments are welcome.
2006-10-17 17:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by TParr12321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could mean several things....1.maybe she's just not into you that way...2.maybe she had a really bad experience w/a man that really turned her off to the whole dating thing......3.maybe she just does not want a relationship for whatever reason......4.last but not least she could be a lesbian....good luck!
2006-10-17 17:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a girl. I'm in a similar situation with a guy. I like him a lot, our personalities are totally in sinc. I've just been burned too many times. Maybe she's got me personal issues to deal with. I personally, would like for a guy to just be there for me. Maybe you should remain her friend but don't push her too hard romantically. Be nice, hang out, tell her she's pretty, maybe let her know what you like about her, without pressuring her. This friend of mine wrote me a note, he said I was pretty and I smelled good and when I smiled I glowed. He totally made my day, and part of why I like him is that he's not made any moves on me. Wait for her to be ready.
2006-10-17 17:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really does like you. I was the same way with my bf. ( i'm also 19) Maybe she is just nervous about going out on a date right now. ask her if she wants to just hang out at your place someday and just talk or watch a movie. You should go buy her something you know she would like. nothing like roses or a puppy, but something like a gift certificate, a fish, a cd, a movie, a digital camera, a ipod, a pair of shox. Tell her you were just out and about and when you looked at it you thought of her and you thought she might like it.
Good Luck,
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P.S. LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENS
2006-10-17 18:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by QUEENBEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she not wanting to have a boyfriend or just not wanting to date?u said u have told her how u felt right?if she's not wanting a bf then see if u can talk her into goin out with u atleast one time so that u can show her what kind of a time u can give her and how much u care about her.remember her fav flower and maybe some candy (if she decides to go out)good luck and hope it all works out for u
2006-10-17 17:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl_12589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very wise. It isn't good to mix love into friendship. People are different as friends than they would be when dating someone. Give it time though, you may have put the idea in her head and it could work out if the chemistry is there.
2006-10-17 17:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you but just as a friend, or she may like you as more than a friend but just isn't ready to date you yet. Give her some times, treat her well and who knows, maybe if she hasn't fallen for you yet, maybe she will. But either way, just respect her choice. Remember, since now a days its rare, girls really appreciate and value a guy's respect.
2006-10-17 17:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only she really knows the answer to this question. However if you've only been out on a few dates with this girl and you have already confessed your feelings to her she may have stuck you in the "friend zone" and just labled you a nice guy who is her friend.
2006-10-17 17:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have been through alot with guys recently and just wants to take a break.
give her some time, maybe shes not ready for a new relationship yet, if you really do love her you shoudl wait for her
however, its good that you told her how you feel, becuase you would have regretted not telling her later
2006-10-17 17:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is in deep inner conflict. Believe me, she doesn't sound at all ready for a romantic relationship, so just be glad you can stay friends. Maybe someday she'll be ready, but you aren't locked in to waiting for her. In the meantime, you can date other girls, if you prefer.
2006-10-17 17:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you're smoking marijuana. Stop smoking and drinking. Go to rehab or therapy. Go to a doctor. THE REASON YOU FEEL DIFFERENT IS THAT YOU'RE SMOKING MARIJUANA. Drugs can have an effect on people and emotions. As I have said therapy or rehab is best.
2016-05-21 22:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋