Hi, I am take my girlfriend who is a virgin to a nice hotel because she is now ok having sex with me. I am planning something in November. I want to have your ideas for how I can make it more romantic and soft....because she is a virgin after all and make her feel special. Any ideas of what I should buy how I should present things in the hotel room just to make it more comfortable for her...I want to show her that I am romantic...I was thinking rosepetals on the ground leading to the flower by the bed. Champaign and honey/chocolate syrup....Any other ideas...I want to make this as good as I can make it. Thanks
2006-10-17 17:39:38 · 14 answers · asked by CircusDelux 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most romantic thing to do is, wait until her wedding night to de-flower her.
2006-10-17 17:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say that from now tell about 1 to 2 weeks before this special night. Drop little questions on what her fantasy's might be. A women usally has thoughts on how she wants her first time to go. You can fill the room with little chocolate kiss's that spell out the words "Love". Candles with soft music. Flowers around the room. There are also eatable lotions that can highten any evening. But those questions you ask will tell you what she enjoys. Good luck.
2006-10-18 00:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by itistigger70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is some very good ideas but what you can also do is put on some romantic music, turn the lights off, buy a romantic movie and watch it before you do have sex.
Also before doing it maybe give her a massage yourself.
Listen to what she wants to do too, and be gentle with her.
Hope you have a good time with your girlfriend!:)
2006-10-18 00:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sounds pretty romantic already. But what if you do all that and she decides to back out? I think I would just have sex with her in the comfort of my own (or hers) home. The hotel thing can wait, unless that is the only way she wants it, which would be gay. But I guess all I can tell you is to make sure she has a good time. Make sure she gets off. If she doesn't get off from sex (LOTS of girls dont) play with her til she screams!
2006-10-18 00:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, seriously, I appreciate what you're trying to do, and I totally respect it, but
Please don't do it in a hotel.
Please don't let this girl's first experience be in a hotel. Let it be somewhere quirky and special, like in the back of your dad's car, on a beach in the dunes, somewhere really memorable, sweet and somewhat spontaneous... not planned out.
I mean, defiantly have a condom (or a few) and be sweet and romantic and have supplies (just in case) but don't set something up that could go wrong or get weird or be remembered as her first time, in a hotel room....
Gals want romance. Trust me on this. And thanks for being so considerate to try and make her first time special. Just make sure it's comfortable for her, no matter how awkward... and she may cry, but that's normal the first time. Just be sure you hold her as long as she wants to be held.
2006-10-18 00:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Appolnia_76 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
All your ideas sound great. You could also have candles, soft music and maybe some massage oils!!!! Good luck and be gently and respect her!!!
2006-10-18 00:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by housewives5 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
giving her oral before her first time will make her feel extra special and be really gentle like you was making love to her so it wont be that much painful and don't get mad and aggravated because she's too tight for you to get in
2006-10-18 00:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by datgurlronda 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
then why are you taking her to a hotel , to me that's sluty and asking for sex... if you want it to be romantic take her to your place not a hotel that's tacky... sorry just my opinion
2006-10-18 00:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Listen to her and don't rush it. Enjoy the moment and be gentle.
2006-10-18 00:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-18 00:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋