the way to ask out a good friend?

Question

ok lemme break it down. me and this girl are relle close. after a while of the friendship i have been secretly likeing her and she dont know. i told one of her friends that i like her friend and she was like aww and all tht b.s. i asked her friend if she liked me and her friend said she dosent know. so i am thinking about just finding out myself. but then i have a problem. i dont know how to do it. should i just go lay it all out and spill my guts to her and tell her i like her. or should i just bring it up casually in a convo. or should i jus wait and find out after time. can anybody help me??

Answer 1

Ask her if she would like to be set up on a blind date then be the one to show up at her door. Don't forget the good old-fashioned roses; they still make a woman's heart melt.

Answer 2

Okay, There is another way. Ask her out, take her for coffee or better still, a nice restaurant and a meal etc would go down nicely. She would definitly know something was up.
Then ask what her feelings are while over that glass of wine.
A gilr likes nothing better then to be taken out somewhere really nice.

Answer 3

RED FLAG... First u have to consider the pros and cons. I mean, u could loose a good friend, but then again u can gain more than that. It all depends on the guts u have. The best way would be to be honest and up front with it.

Answer 4

If you really like her then find a way to show and prove to her, don't just tell anybody to tell her that you like that girl, of coarse she will not belive it because it didn't came from you directly. So maybe continue the friendship. and wait for the right moment to say what you feel for her.

Answer 5

you need to just spill it out so she know whats going on. Thats how i feel about it. she may feel the same way and your not going to know unless you say something.