okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for a awhile but like that 2 month we were awesome then he turned on me started cheating on me and hitting me and yelling at my family but inside i dont know i keep forgiving him and i just dont reall wanna leave him though you guys its 4 months is t hat to long should i say sometihng???? HELP!!!!!! my email is whosaidicantbesuperman@yahoo.com kk peace
2006-10-17 17:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he ask me to marry him yesterday i havent answered
2006-10-17 17:19:13 · update #1
yeah great there goes a bruise he just hit me i have a huge scar on my back he acciendedly slice me w/ a knife
2006-10-17 17:22:02 · update #2
Just break up with him if he is not treatimg you like he should be. That is no was for a man to treat his loved one!
2006-10-17 17:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by daisymoomoocow7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel it's like uve been dating and u don't wanna let go well, ok lets say he has 100 points, lets do the math, hitting u,- 70 points,cheating -50,yelling at parents -50, it all adds up 170 so, even though ur in love theres a score of 170 u should leave him.
i hope ur disition makes u happy
2006-10-18 00:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by cheese_monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon sweetie, get some help from an adult you trust, NOW. If you dont, this situation will destroy your mind, body and spirit. These are NOT the lessons you were meant to learn from! Believe me, you will have nightmares about this for a long time to come as it is. So for heavens sake, Love yourself and RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PS Whatever you do, DO NOT tell him in person and do not go anywhere alone for awhile. Be aware and be safe. God speed young one.
2006-10-18 00:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a leopard change it's spots.
You should tell him no to marriage and dump him. Tell him that if he truly loves you and wants to pursue a long term relationship with you he needs to undergo counselling and prove that he is committed to being a nicer person.
2006-10-18 00:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by StatIdiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to break up with you. Let him go and let him miss you. HITTING IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE! Neither is cheating. Come on, you deserve better. He's not in love with you right now and is probably in love with someone else. Let her have him and work on finding someone better to make him jealous (moreover to make you happy).
2006-10-18 00:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by We2Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you're still with a tool like this is beyond me... Be strong and get out of there before things get worse.
2006-10-18 00:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT HE HITTING YOU IS A GOOD SIGN THAT YOU
NEED TO LEAVE THIS YOUNG MAN ALONG, THE LONGER
YOU STAY IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP THE HARDER IT
WILL BE TO GET OUT. TRUST ME YOU DESERVE A LOT
BETTER THAN WHAT THIS GUY IS DOING TO YOU.
2006-10-18 00:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is grime.
leave the jerk.
a man should NEVER hit a woman
or be rude to her family
his woman should be a gem to him
and he would not treat a gem that way
2006-10-18 00:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and marry him if you think you deserve to be treated like that
2006-10-18 00:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that. Believe me it is time to get out now because it will only get worse.
2006-10-18 00:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl2004ds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋