I visited my ex and was treating the whole thing as 'we are just friends' but the last day we had such a wonderful time that my heart took over my head. Previously to melting in his arms for a night pasionate sex, I asked why I had received no response to an email I had sent a month back. In that email I said that we really didnt know each other all that well and that we didnt have nothing in common other than sex -- which it's what I think hoping that there is more. He replied with a vague answer that he didnt want to fight so he saw best to ignore the email and that if he didnt care then why would he invite me to visit him and spend the whole weekend with him. I wasnt happy with the answer but I surrended anyway. After arriving home I sent him an email letting him know that I left a bit of my heart with him as I believe his words were real and that if this feeling prevailed then we'll see eachother again, however that the ball was in his court now. 24 hrs and I've not heard from him
2006-10-17 17:12:17 · 22 answers · asked by earthling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a loser
2006-10-17 22:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by whitetiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear - looks like you were taken for a ride, in all senses of the word! The only thing ye have is sex, and sex does not necessarily mean love. You are very easily manipulated, and he knows this. I think you should get over him and move on, he's only going to break your heart.
2006-10-18 02:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You relationship is only based on sex. even if he were to go for you the moment he feels bored of sex he will find some one new and exciting So I advise you to find some one else who will want you for every thing and not sex alone. If all be equal sex should be last on the agenda not the first
2006-10-18 00:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do more than have sex during this "just friends" weekend?
If he knows that you like the sex already...without the need of a commitment..he is going to avoid the subject.
2006-10-18 00:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time a couple of days then try again you will or will not get an email just be patient he sounds confused to me so give him some space good luck sureilll
2006-10-18 00:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, It is just sex, any man that just brushes of an answer to a question like that does not care...he used you again!!! It was not your heart that took over! I dont mean to insult you but men get used too.
2006-10-18 00:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Psycmixer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you would be better off with him out of your life. You are obviously looking for somebody to match the commitment that you are obviously wanting to put in to a relationship. there's a lot of us guys out here that will give commitment unfortunatl a small minority are just takers with no give.
2006-10-18 02:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, looks like all he wonted was sex...........forget him and get on with your life, i am sure that there are some really neat guys out there who would love a nice girl like you, men will i really don;t think that half of them know what the wont,good luck
2006-10-18 01:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he doesn't care and just wanted a lay,
Or he's afraid to look needy and wants to play it cool.
Best strategy for a guy is to be the former but look the latter (it pisses me off to see it, but it's all around me!)
2006-10-18 00:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple of days. If you don't get an answer, sometimes that can be the answer that you need to move on.
2006-10-18 00:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just seems like he wanted you for sex! He will probably mail you back when he wants some more!
2006-10-18 03:27:03 · answer #11 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋