I don't like my body at all, but he says he loves it. I want to have a smaller nose, and bigger breasts and fat taken out of my stomach pouch, legs and butt. I've never liked my body. I think it is because my mom always would call me fat! I don't know how to raise my confidense. I feel like every girl looks better than me, and I'm scared that my boyfriend might think the same! I love him very much I want him to be happy with me and the way I look, and not care about the other girls because he's happy with what he has! Please help I need to be confident! With love, Lynn
2006-10-17 16:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Thats a good weight so if he says he loves your body then I would trust him on it. Reward him by dressing in a manner he enjoys... if you know what I mean.
2006-10-17 16:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jason H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves the way u look then u need to learn to love it as well otherwise u won't ever be happy. Ur description sounds nice, I'm sure u look great girl! To boost ur self-esteem, try going to the gym, dressing differently ( sexy) smelling and looking good at all times and walk with ur head up high and a big smile on ur face :) Don't compare urslf to other females, we all come in diff. shapes and sizes and we all have our own different beauty. Be happy with what you got otherwise, not only will u be unhappy but, so will ur man.
Wish u the best of luck! U can do it beautiful!
2006-10-17 16:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dulce 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your bf says he loves your body, believe him. You are about my size. You don't say your age but if you are young I bet I have a lot more belly fat than you do and my hubby loves my body. I haven't been satisfied with my body for a long time since I've gotten older. Don't dwell on the fact that your mom called you fat. Exercising your lower body will help you feel better about the way you look (and make you look better). Good luck
2006-10-17 17:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by cats2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like he loves the way you look. Tell you what put your pic up on www.hotornot.com . It will get a raiting of what other people think of you and maybe that will help to improve your confidence in yourself. Send me the url at knight35966@yahoo.com because I would like to vote on you. This is not a porn site so make sure you don't post nude pics. You can post sexy pics but you can't be naked. With the way you describe your self you sound like a little hottie. O'ya you must be 18 to post on this site. Hope this helped.
2006-10-17 16:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by knight35966 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dr. Phil just had a program on these issues - on young people wanting major reconstructive surgeries. Check out his websight: I think it's Dr. Phil.com (or something like that - you'll find it).
Your problem is not with your body, it's in your thinking. So you need to , with G-d's help, reconstruct your thinking, validating your good attributes, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Then concentrating on those. Any time the negative thoughts come in to your brain, replace them with those positive thoughts.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 16:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to wall mart, winco, or any grocery store and look at the couples and how they are matched up.. You will see some people must not care about looks. Then look at yourself. You are better than a lot of them Everyone can't be beautiful.
2006-10-17 16:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by jekin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about yourself. If your boyfriend really loves you he wont judge by how you look but what is inside of you. Dont feel bad about yourself no one can build up your confidence but you. Be happy.
Good luck Lynn,
Claudia
2006-10-17 16:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Princess10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow your going to find the courage to go on....and i wish you all the best
2006-10-17 16:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋