I finally asked the girl(on one of my previous questions) out on a date( dinner movie messed around at the mall), we had a great time, we went my with one of friends and his girlfriend, when the girl and me were just sitting in the car, she says "i dont want a boyfriend" but later she tells me i didnt mean that, because her she is scared to get hurt again, (her last boyfriend was a real idiot),so she says she is scared to like me because she will get hurt again, i told her i would never do anything like that to her, for a follow up what do i say to her? thanks for the help
2006-10-17 15:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Chosen One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need for any follow up answers. You already made it clear you won't hurt her and you better keep to your promise, otherwise you'd halt another boy's chances of being with her in the future if you later screwed up.
2006-10-17 15:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by scooby doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time to get over her last hurt but tell her you will be there for her when she is ready and that you are not going to rush her and take as long as she need but we can still hang out together good luck
2006-10-17 22:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and be truthful...don't give her bull crap like "oh I will never ever break up with you..." and then find out you don't like her then dump her...Us girls hate that....Also tell her that if you do hurt her you will feel bad about it...We like to here that boys are sensitive...Also tell her you will always be there for her...
2006-10-17 22:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by wishingstar08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you really enjoyed hanging out with her and you don't want to push her into anything that she is not ready for. Continue to hang out with her and give her some time.
2006-10-17 22:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets not waist time thinking about the pain he has caused u.!.live on enjoy what i have to offer!
2006-10-17 22:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by ALL4 ONE&1FOR ALL! AMERICA! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt know what to say but try not to take things to fast with her or she might be afraid that your just trying to use her. and be there when she needs you.
2006-10-17 22:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i promise i will love you with all my heart because you are apart of mine
2006-10-17 22:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can say, actions speak louder than words
2006-10-17 22:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i promise
trust me
etc
2006-10-17 22:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by xenoith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I PROMISE I WILL NOT HURT YOU.
2006-10-17 22:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Shade Nights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋