i have been lesbian for 9 years now, and have been thinkin about goin back striaght..but when i try to meet guys..they can be such asses, it's makes me wanna stay lesbian. they start talkin about seeing me with other females..etc ... i am looking for "good" guy..who is willin to be patient with me, be there for me etc .. so why are guys like that .. they are either scared, or want some kind of freak i am willin to be with a man... him and only him..but not bring a female into this..if that was the case i can stay doin what i'm doing .. sorry this is so long ..lol .. but hope u get what i mean ..
2006-10-17 15:47:16 · 25 answers · asked by lezbianflava 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg girl everything is gonna be ok u got that!!! im here for ya!!!
i think that you should honestly try tobe yourself when your around a guy and if you feel that ur not mean t to be sraight then dont try to pressure yourself into it!!! if you need any advice my email is funnyfun92@yahoo.com!!! write back whenever!!!
2006-10-17 15:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am glad to know that you have no problem. You are a normal female, after all! If you do not feel guilty about being a lesbian, then youre ahead of the game. Women are beautiful people. Then, again, I'm a man, and is expected to think that. Let me be honest with you...I am bi-sexual. There, doesn't that gross you out? No? Then why should you be concrened about what others think? You are a beautiful person. You have value. You were created a female by God, who wants you to have children.
Eventually, you will want them too. You will grow into a responsible parent, wife, and nurse to your children. I am deeply in respect of you. You dig me, and I dig you. Stop worrying, who's normal all the time. You and your girl-friend have fun, and don't worry as to what's normal. This is a young person's phase. It will pass!
2006-10-17 23:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion lesbianism is not a choice. You don't think about "going back straight". If you can be with a guy or a girl then you are technically a bisexual. If your choice is to now be with a man and only a man then...change the places and people with whom you have associated the past 9 years. If you are associating within the same group of people and places then people expect of you what your past behavior has shown. When you do change your associations ...don't offer information on your past sexual behavior.
2006-10-17 22:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly the reason you probably decided to become a lesbian in the first place. They just don't get it! I am married...and totally get the lesbian thing. Relationships must be so much easier. I say go both ways and have the best of both worlds.
2006-10-17 22:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about how others feel about you, especially the guys. Keep the concept of your goals and do good as you anticipated. The right guy will come along, just keep active, not enough information to pursue what you are looking for in a man except that you desire one.
2006-10-17 22:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes males can be asses. They only act that way because they want to look good in front of there friends. Go back to guys and stay that way. You might have to look very hard for someone who will understand your situation. Look doesn't matter it's what in the inside. Pray about it.
2006-10-17 22:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by PURE SEDUCTION 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u mean but I am not lez it is hard to fine a man really but u probably have roomers telling to guys that u are a lezbo an to date u. Because my friend is one and she has roomers about saying not go out with her and she feels the same way as u do so it is ok to be a lez and be straight and it people can't accept for how u are than they are not for.
2006-10-17 22:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can just one day decide to change your sexuality. If you are a lesbian, you should have no desire to be with a man. I think that you should take time to figure out yourself before you go looking for anyone else. Good luck.
2006-10-17 22:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a toughy, todays guys can be such pervs when they hear about a lesbian or bi woman. You would need to explain first hand what you want, when you do find a guy.
2006-10-17 22:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then most of the men your now trying to talk to know your past,since your already doing something they consider freaky,they now want to exploit it for there own pleasure.Thinking you want or may want it as well, they think this is why your now talking to them(or i would know about your past) until you tell them what you just told us,that you want to go back being straight.I would say go look for men to date or talk to somewhere your not known or make them believe your serious.Good luck whatever you do.
2006-10-17 22:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋