this guy i like told me that he is not looking for relationship and i said ok and stay away from him. he can't stop looking at me and saying hello when he sees me. i say hello back and walk away. i found out that he had things going on in his live and he has alot of things he want to do which include money problem and willing to finish college.
i know he like me, i can see in his eye and he is a nice guy too some time by the door, he would open the door for me...
i know he doesn't want a gf but the way he talk and look at me make me want him more and i am confuse now. i don't want to be mean by not saying hello back to him but i am just lost. i asked him if he like talking to me b/c there were time i called him and he wouldn't answer his cell. he said he had alot going on, that he like talking to me. does he like me? or maybe he is afraid.
2006-10-17 15:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tia,
i think he's testing his boundaries with you... Seeing what you'll take and leave... Be careful you don't get burned... Proceed with caution... He looks to be testing the waters to see if maybe he wants to pursue you... I could be wrong, but give him enough line before you set the hook on him....
You could find him being yours if you just don't try to push things forward... Let it float forward on him... "Hey..." DON'T call him... Let him do the calling... Smooth like silk... He calls, you act like he's your friend only...
Let him make the first move... If he doesn't make a move then mention that your other line is ringing, and then tell him that you might call him back if it isn't too late... This guy is calling you, wish me luck, he may be asking for a date...
If he starts in on, "Hey, I thought we had something..." Say, "You're a good friend, but you told me you're not looking for a relationship... Now if you want one, you better tell me now so I can tell this guy that I won't be free!!!"
2006-10-17 15:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that you understand if he doesn't want to get involved with anyone right now but that you're still into him and you'll be with him on whatever terms he's comfortable with--friend, girlfriend, whatever. That way the decision is completely up to him and you can stop worrying about it.
2006-10-17 22:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend --- when his problems are solved or unimportant you will still be there and if you still both want a romantic relationship then go for it
you do have a relationship at the moment -- its more friendship than romance
2006-10-17 22:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are really confused...but i don't think he likes u...i think that he's just being nice...cause he's not looking for dating nor a gf...i think u should go on and live ur life..
2006-10-17 22:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋