Ok, well theres this guy from school, and yesterday was the best day because we were majorly flirting and i thought that he might like me. But than today he was flirting with my friend more than me, and im REALLY REALLY sad. Like you have no idea how "perfect" this guy is in my mind. I love horses, and he does too. its unreal about everything. He kept on teasin my friend today and like kept on asking her stuff, he did a few things to me, but more to my friend. i feel really ugly right now. My friend is pretty and she is getting like all these guys, ive been told im pretty too but i dont have guys falling for me. please help!
2006-10-17 14:56:20 · 25 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys check me out a lot, and than like smile at me, but they never really do anything. Im a little on the shy side, but i talk to people i know.
2006-10-17 15:11:02 · update #1
That guy is a player. If he really liked you then he would be wanting to be w/ ONLY you. You sound pretty young and I know that crushes can be rough. But believe me, that guy is going to play anything w/ 2 legs and that he thinks he can get a rise out of. Ignore him and move on. I promise you, there are far better fish in the sea than that little piece of seaweed.
2006-10-17 15:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go check out the Marriage & Divorce section for a few weeks. It will shed some light on how wonderful men are in the long run.
The best thing you can do is realize that you are worth every bit of attention you can give yourself. You do not need a guy's attention to feel fulfilled. The right guy will come along when it's time. In the meantime, take up a journal and write your thoughts out so you can get past this.
2006-10-17 15:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres always gonna be someone who is prettier, skinnier, smarter than you. What should that matter. You should quit comparing yourself to other girls, quit worrying about boys, and live your life for you.
Why in the world would you want some boy after he flirted with you one day, but the next ignored you to flirt with your friend? He sounds like a real loser. Like what good is it for you to have a second thought about him? It doesn't matter what he thinks about you. or anybody else. He isn't worth your time. Maybe he's trying to see if you get jealous so that he can get into your pants. Thats usually what most boys want. and then afterwards go around telling everyone what a tramp you are. forget about him
2006-10-17 15:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, from what I've gathered, you're either in middle school or early high school. It is perfectly normal for these kinds of things to happen. Boys are stupid...and they always will be. Don't let something like this get to you! I'm sure you're beautiful! So just go out there and flirt away while you're still young and single! Don't focus on this one guy, there are plenty of other great guys out there that like horses and other things that you like too! Also, be sure to tell your friend how you feel and make sure you let her know that it upset you when she flirted with him.
And one more thing, the guy you're talking about...I can tell that this isn't something new for him. I bet you he goes around flirting majorly with every girl he can get feedback from...play hard to get with this type of guy! Let him know that he can't get every girl to fall in love with him, set him straight!
Good luck!
2006-10-17 15:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by PANDABEAR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine if a guy whimpered on like this babyish drivel, who would be there for him ? He'd be called a ****** and told to get out of everyones sight. Get your head out of the sewer and back into your school books and work to get your grades. Children wanting sexual attention, do you not have any parental control ? Go get your education, pretty girls get used and turn into hoes where as well educated girls very often win themselves the good guys and get a life worth having. Bloody outrageous behaviour ........ I'm crying right now ....... so bloody well cry, awwww grow up.
2006-10-17 15:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i've thought lots of guys were perfect but they turned out to be mr.wrong but never give up i've been told i'm pretty by friends but never a guy until like two days ago this hot 16 yr old called me pretty and said i was going to be gorgeous and i'm 13 so never give up and the guy i like started liking me !!! so your day will come i haven't even had a bf since i was 11 and my only problem now is my mom so yeah don't give up and tomorrow when you see him think of all the bad things about him his teeth are crooked he's stupid it should really cheer you up
2006-10-17 15:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by hefner93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff Him you don't need him I'm sure there's somebody out there 4 you all you gotta do is WAIT and BE PATIENT because you'll both probably have a lot in common for example HORSES.
I know how you feel because sometimes feel like that when I come to school and see my crush flirting with other chicks!!!
2006-10-17 15:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Shanny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is obviously two-faced horse riding jerk. Forget about him, so what if no guys fall for you, its not the end of the world. But Í'm sure theres someone out there waiting for you. Ignore the guy and maybe once you've calmed down, go grab some popcorn and watch "John Tucker Must Die". Only you could change "John Tucker" to his name. :)
2006-10-17 15:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by isabella_acerass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist of all, don't give up your friendship. Next, act normal pretend like you didn't notice the attention being given to your friend and not to you. Most likely he's trying to get a reaction. So act the same and keep smiling there was obviously something in you he was attracted to, keep bringing out that quality.
2006-10-17 15:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by CrossIntoTheBlue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to 'back of biatch' and to 'get your skanky hands off of him' but in a nice, roundabout way that lets her know that you really like this guy and would like to date him. If she doesn't, and continues flirting with him she is not a true friend. Spread rumours around the cheerleaders change room about how she took three big cocks at once (in her cherry cave) and then it will eventually get around and the guy will think she is a skank. Then you can pursue him again, and one day he will be putting his nice, smooth monster between your perky cherry cola lips
2006-10-17 15:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋